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Yanti
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42
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Bandung, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 38 - 51
Bismillah towards Allah's blessing
I want a simple, not many style man, who is obedient in doing prayer, fearing God Almighty and I am here to find a life partner, not a girlfriend so for people who are not serious about this relationship do not ask anymore
HAPSARI
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44
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 53
Let's be lucky!
Thank you for stopping by and reading my profile! I am well-known as a loving, funny, friendly woman who is giving myself a chance to meet someone special. Looking after myself is something I like such as doing yoga and pilates, also outdoors activities, reading novels. I also love to try new things in everything. Five things I never forget in my purse: Mobile phone, perfume, lipstick, brush, & a pen Yass I like to smell myself good :) Yet the most important thing: Family is always number one and I'm so grateful that I'm blessed with lovely one. Final words : Let's be lucky and find each other!
Stephanie
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41
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Palembang, Sumatera Selatan, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 29 - 53
Asian dating do your magic ✨
Here to find a future partner who vibes on the same frequency. By day I’m a busy bee in a private hospital 🐝, not a Victoria’s Secret model, but I promise I’m good enough to steal your smile. Sapiosexual at heart, charming with beauty that shines from the inside out (plus a healthy tan and curves to match 🌞). Let’s start with coffee, if the chemistry’s right, I’ll happily melt your mind afterward.
D
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41
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Denpasar, Bali, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 30 - 39
Hello
I am an outgoing and social woman. I love meeting new and like minded people. I'm always up for a good time. I'm very caring and funny. I am a romantic at heart. I have a lust for ally things great in this world, great food, great friends and great adventures. Scubadiving is my life!
Kinanti
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49
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Kuta, Bali, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 50 - 65
Inner Peace and Values
Hi... thank you for reading my profile... I’m an old soul who values inner peace, deep connections, and the quiet kind of joy—like sitting under a tree, barefoot in the grass, or watching the rain with a warm cup of coffee... I believe in soul ties, divine timing, and that the right person will feel like home—not fireworks, but a calm remembering... Nature heals me... Plants, oceans, moonlight… they speak the language of my heart. I love slow mornings, meaningful talks, and soul aligned conversations... If you're grounded, emotionally aware, and seeking something real from the soul—not just the surface—maybe our paths are meant to cross 🙂
Linda
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42
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Kuta, Bali, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 60
Make your life better than anything
A simple women of God n nothing special on me n sorry I can’t open your text Here ,and I think if you want to judge that person,what’s wrong if we try first and get to know each other than we know what the nature and character of that person is,!and
Dezz
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47
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Bogor, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 48 - 58
Read my profile pls'
I know the chances of finding a life partner here are small, but hey' nothing wrong with trying. Maybe we’ll connect, or maybe we’ll just learn something new from each other across the globe. I’m single, never married, and child-free by choice. If you already have children, I hope they’re grown up and living their own lives. I’m not here to raise anyone’s kids or play house. Please read my profile before sending a like or message. If you contact me without knowing anything about me, you’ll only look foolish. I value my time and yours so don’t waste it. Important: I will never travel to meet someone first. If you’re serious about me, you come to me. Start by showing up on a video call. If you only message endlessly with no real intention, I’ll assume you’re a scammer or just wasting time and I’ll cut you off. I’m a Capricorn, practical, straightforward, and I don’t do games. I’m chill, simple, and prefer an honest, comfortable connection. If you’re kind, stable, and know what you want, we’ll get along just fine. Thanks for taking the time to read this. I hope we all find the connection we’re looking for.
Kirana
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41
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Bandung, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 41 - 50
Sorry Not For Playing Games
I'm not good in describe my self, but one thing for sure, i really do want to find someone to share my life with.. someone honest, faithfull, caring and loving. I hate cheated.. and thats why i got divorced, enough to make me feel like trauma. So i dont want to play game, i dont have time for that, life is too short.. so, yeah this is me.. No Cheat and No Playing games. thanks.
Selvia
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42
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Surabaya, Jawa Timur, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 39 - 60
I'm easy going person
i'm a widowed 2 years ago. i'm 40 years old. independent woman. Coming from one of the countries in Asia namely Indonesia you eight three this one eight stand is pretty cool but at the moment our society is still not as advanced Europe, Canada or the western United States.
Ingrid
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Verified
48
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Denpasar, Bali, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 45 - 55
Looking for one man woman
As an Asian ( Chinese Indonesian ), I feel blessed to have a younger look. I'm nice, caring, kind, loyal, intelligent, sincere, genuine, empath and intuitive. I don't like small talk, I always like to have a deep conversation, to know people character, I like to talk about spirituality even still have limited knowledge about it. I like to read people profile to know how they're really are before send them a like. I'm here to have a pure intention not to trick you, not to play games, not to hurt you, not to waste your time. So I also expect to be treated the same. I know that everyone here has their intention, everyone can choose whom they want to be with, and everyone has so many options. I may not be everyone's cup of tea but I'm not for everyone and I'm not an option. I respect a man with morals, value and integrity as I also have it. I value kindness and empathy above all. And I'm a karma believer, I treat people the way I want to be treated. I feel sorry for everyone here both men and women who have a pure intentions to meet someone, but instead of meeting nice people, they got scammed or lied to by some people. I don't understand why people are so mean to other people that they have never even met at all.
Shree
Standard Member
41
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Surabaya, Jawa Timur, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 38 - 55
Connection, chemistry, compatibility for marriage
Disclaimer : I'm 41 now, I don't know why it still show 40 in my profile. I'm a simple yet complicated homebody. My goal in life is to live happily and peacefully in harmony. Looking for connection, chemistry and compatibility for serious relationshi
Ilda
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Verified
45
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Bekasi, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 39 - 57
Hiya!
Oh I don't know. Sometimes people find me quite funny. I love to laugh. Self deprecating humour is my middle name. Sometimes I overshare things, even though I always said "I'm an introvert". Sometimes I wish I live in the wizarding world. Is this enough for an introduction? You can ask me anything you want. Let's talk!
Ester
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43
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Sleman, Yogyakarta, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 36 - 54
Hi
Hello I'm Ester Dreaming of and Wishing for someone on my side, hold my hand when we walk. Sharing life together, enjoying life together and taking care of each other. I like cooking, walking on the beach, nature. No games, lies and fake people. I am here to meet a real man for serious relationship
Enry
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47
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 45 - 60
When you stop looking for love.. it'll find you
I'm a coffee addict..let's have some coffee ☕ I read a lot ! I even read your profiles This is like Win or lose, lots of selection, some cheap and cute but wont last and some great quality but everything is mixed in, you have to look through almost all of it to find the right fit!! I'm attracted to personalities over faces , its definitely alot harder to figure out on this.. I like simple things in life, free drama and always up front and curious for something that interesting.. I live by the fact that life is way too short so sometimes I plan for the future but enjoy as much what and when I can today! Looking for my person, to share this fabulous life with. I have three children... I love spending time with my family and friends, singing, listening to music and designing clothes.. Equally happy on spending a cozy day/night at home. Particular skills: sense of humour, optimism and spoiling the ones I love...but sometimes i'm a little introvert..i sometimes loves spend my time alone too sitting on a coffeshop,have 1 or 2 cups of coffee, put my earphones, play the music and read books.. I'm not a great cook but always willing to try to make something,got criticized mostly by my kids but they still finish whatever I cook...lol... Aber trotzdem, ich suche den Menschen - der mich durchschaut
QQ
Standard Member
47
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 45 - 65
Be a women who not only inspires,But also educates
I am a loyal woman, humble, responsible, hard working, never giving up. there is only 1 in the world and there is no duplicate, like jogging, swimming, tennis and watching world-class tennis, watching Indonesian and international football, gymnastics, dancing, singing, traveling, and the world-class football. reading books, reading, learning and observing new things
Amiamoor
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40
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 35 - 51
"If we seek perfection we will miss the best"
I am an introvert woman, who prefers to spend time trying new recipes, humorous, learning new things, dining, singing, travelling, teaching me your interests, I prioritize quality over quantity Note : auto block if ghost message comes in (without photo) so don't send me message No Photo = Auto Block ❌
Butir
Standard Member
44
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Bekasi, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 45 - 62
PLEASE READ MY BIO BEFORE YOU START
Read carefully, I'm not premium PLEASE READ MY BIO BEFORE YOU START. I'm single mother with 1 daughter. At this apps, I really want to find a remote job or a job that can help me to earn money. I'm seriously about this. My experience is as Admin assi
Arl
Standard Member
45
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Tangerang, Banten, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 42 - 57
Hi..😁 I don't know what to say here.
im not premium members,so i think its impossible for me to read your message or you read mine. Someone need to change the system here!So what's the point of all this, can anyone tell me??🤓🤣.Ok...enough with the opening. I'm here for serious relationship, long term relationship.No hanky panky,no sex call, no waisting each other's time. Be mindful about what you bring in this apps. Be respectful. Have some dignity. Thank you
Dee
Standard Member
42
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 42 - 52
Hello, please read my profile first. If you're not...
I'm educated, independent, and strong-minded, so I need a man who can lead with confidence while appreciating my strength. I enjoy deep conversation and would love to meet someone who likes travelling and explore life toghether. I have a son, and I’m working hard to provide for him. I wish to meet a man who can love and build a connection with him. Yes, I come as a package deal.
Rina
Standard Member
41
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Palembang, Sumatera Selatan, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 39 - 46
Looking for a life partner
Warm-hearted, loyal, and a little playful. I value respect, love, and stability in a relationship, but I also enjoy laughter and lighthearted moments. I admire men who are protective, mature, and emotionally steady — someone who can make me feel safe while keeping life fun. If you’re genuine and ready to build something real, we’ll get along well.
Melody
Standard Member
49
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Denpasar, Bali, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 45 - 85
Looking for life partner, my one love ❤❤❤
Im looking for life partner, good companion, soulmate.Im loving, caring,kind heart, respectful, honest, faithful, loyal,fit,energetic,humorous, funny,sincere,down to earth, fun to be with,active, adventurous to the nature. I like to do outdoors Cycling, Hiking, Rafting, Kayaking, Camping, Trekking, Walking, Fishing, Dancing, Singing, Music,Beaches, Waterfalls, Rivers,Mountains, Forests,Cooking
Icha
Standard Member
42
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Medan, Sumatera Utara, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 38 - 55
hold my hand make me your true love.💙💙
I’m a friendly woman, likes to joke, has a soft heart, is considerate, affectionate, and cares for the people around me. I am very tolerant of cultural differences and tolerant of differences in beliefs or religions. And the most important thing is that I am a loyal and romantic woman toward my life partner.
Aurora
Standard Member
Verified
48
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Surabaya, Jawa Timur, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 43 - 53
If I give you my heart, would you care for it?
Hi... I'm an ordinary woman who likes to travel, learn and try something new. I'm fond of going beyond monotonous ordinary life to experience truly extraordinary one. I consider myself highly value fidelity, honesty, open communication and respect. I would love to meet someone who shares these values with whom I feel secure and comfortable to express my feelings, whose shoulder I can borrow to lean on when I'm at the lowest point in life. I seek a man with humanity, compassion and humble. Someone with whom I can grow become better at being human. A right companion where we can support each other to grow together. PS : I do not do "have sex outside of marriage" as many people do. I believe a kind and understanding man will surely be able to appreciate it. Some stories unfold how the relationship began to turn for the worse after having sexual activity. The relationship often ends after only one such activity, or sometimes slowly grinds on with continuing damage to each party. Sex represents more than an activity. It communicates to our spirits that we are valued, accepted, and we have found our 'soul mate'. While the activity is certainly exciting, it is only temporal and does not bring the 'truth' and completeness that our spirits thought it would. These mixed signals (especially if repeated) to our spirits is damaging to the emotions and minds. I feel that what is different is what attracts us, because we do not necessarily have to have the same tastes to say that we have fitted in. In short, I'm seeking someone who has same spirit of life and shares similar values. We can start building a relationship and good connection based on our common shared. Then let's see where they would lead us. It might be something more meaningful.
Dameria
Standard Member
Verified
40
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Depok, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 56
Hey there! :))
I'm a mom of 2 fur-kids and a daughter. I'm homebody but I also love being outdoors just to enjoy the nature. Bonding time with my kiddos is priority. I like to listen but I'm not very good at responding. However, I like to make people comfortable with my presence.
vivi
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45
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Sukabumi, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 58
kejujuran dan bertanggung jawab
Simple, hard-working people love to travel, cook and exercise, don’t like love-doting scammers, money-con artists in the name of love, don’t call or vote me if not serious, I just want to live a quiet life at my age with my companion in any country
tasya
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42
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 33 - 42
I believe in relationships that start with good communication, my goal here is to find a life partner that suits me, who is kind and loyal who respects me, who is royal, humorous, romantic and responsible, I can't accept my sons and I have loved my two sons. i do not accept free s-x, also sex before marriage, I am also not a smoker and drinker. i have 6 cats because I like cats, and I have jewelry making activities that I always do in between my daily activities, I like beautiful things, flowers, atmosphere and places, I can also cook a variety of Asian, western, middle eastern dishes, and I love to cook as well as good food, okay I think to explain here is too long, if there’s something you want to know you can just ask.
Wendy
Standard Member
48
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Kudus, Jawa Tengah, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 45 - 56
An authentic lady
I love singing and interesting to learn traditional dancing. I am self development books' lover. I am also active in community activity in solid waste management. I believe that we are valuable in God's eyes & He has given us life, so I want to repay His love with all the goodness within my ability.
Niafa
Standard Member
Verified
49
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Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 42 - 60
Love is in the air
Well I'm an open minded with a big heart n sense of humor, kinda moody sometimes - people's say I'm nice and moving but definetely you would not know before you get to know me. I don't hide anything as you can check my profile on my social media with the same ID.
Rinda
Standard Member
Verified
40
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Samarinda, Kalimantan Timur, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 31 - 44
Single Mom 🦋 Hard working I've nothing to hide♥️...
Work hard, calm, independent, very open minded, humorist, romantic 🌹✌🏻 Wearing niqab n hijab everyday when going to outside 🦋 I realize right now it's very difficult to trust someone and find the right person, I'm not perfect because perfectio
EL
Standard Member
Verified
45
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Denpasar, Bali, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 50
Excited about meaningful connection
I'd love to meet someone who is just excited about a meaningful connection as i am. Lets see how universe cross our path, maybe be a friend or maybe you are the one. I love travelling and when i am do it i like to try and explore something new. Enjoying city and nature in the same time, animal lover, movie, reading, and gardening. I like historical and documentary, art, museum and nature. I am bit adventurous yet calm, enjoying smart/intelligent conversation. Nothing makes a man sexier than treating women with respect. If you cook, you got one point plus already 🤗 To add more about me, I like to talk/discuss about everything, but i will keep something intimate as personal between me and the one (maybe you!). So please expect no sex topic or bikini picture.
ARIE
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43
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Yogyakarta, Yogyakarta, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 55
Hi.. a real man.. ✨
Hi. a real man. i'm warm and the personality. That's way I have so many friends. Hey said I'm funny. Yeah, I'm an active independent woman. I like a challenge. So would you want to help me conversation the world gig? Because demand of my work I often travel out of town. But I really engaged it. I like to interview with a lot of people. I love to travel, the ecreally to see nature with beautiful scenary like a mountain, beach and courses you too. 👉 it's a beautiful thing. 😆 Oh, one more than I like culinary too ecally i.dar and indonesian food like that rendang. You know? Is that delicious you're re-delicious? Please be my dear definite contact by ofcourse later I cook for you. What do you think?
Vi
Standard Member
43
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Batam, Riau, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 39 - 62
looking for a loyal partner .
I'm have a good heart, sincere, loyal and hard work. My life simple. Hope found my life partner with a good heart too. I like Honestly. I hate lie and talk sweet only. Respect me And I will give you my world . 😘😍 . Note : I don't like pets, not coz i am not affectionate. I believe animal fur is not good for health. Don't look people from the cover ...
Risna
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Verified
44
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Samarinda, Kalimantan Timur, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 35 - 53
Risna
Onest a simple file of application full and fun, cooking is the nicest for me, even acereally I not to go in therapy cheh, but for cooking is fun, I like passing it, read news from twitter or watch youtube, and do some exerwise after work is moodotter for me, for example, and recently that's the way i kill time at my work day off
Nana
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41
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Regency of Banyuwangi, Jawa Timur, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 30 - 55
Be kind and have polite please 💜
I am straight, a simple person and have genuine heart I am an open minded person, likes honesty, likes to joke but many friends say I am a firm person, but very compassionate, and family oriented, I am among those who are very easy to be compassionate towards others. Honesty and loyalty are very important things as a condition to be my partner. I like to travel and see new things and learn from new things. If you don't know me, I look quiet, but actually I really like to share talk everything, I want to know a lot of things and share experiences. Most people are ashamed to admit taking part in "online dating" to find a partner, but I'm not, because in life we have to try, because we never know where our soul mate is, so maybe my future husband is here ;-)
Revina
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Verified
42
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Kabanjahe, Sumatera Utara, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 20 - 40
Find me.
I'm an independent woman and an hard worker. Love traveling, music, game, photography, movies. Not speak English well but learning to. I'm an easy going person, loyal, open minded, honest, fun, no drama. And I'm not golddigger! Be wise what you choose. And please don't waste my time with fake photo and account.. A deep relationship will end up with sex, but it doesn’t mean you can harass me, please be gentle and we’ll see where this goes.. ☺️ You might seen beautiful pictures, but I hope you’ll find beautiful heart in me.. ☺️ Cewe anti drama, semoga gak risih sama ketawa dan leluconku 😬 And yes, I’m inked (tatoan) 😬 and I love to wear make-up, not too much because looking good in front of other people brings happiness for me.. ☺️
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