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Dilys
Diamond
Verified
43
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Guiyang, Guizhou, China
Seeking:
Male 45 - 55
An associate professor of English at a university
Hello, I’m Dilys, and I’m from China. I am a mother, and I am also an Associate Professor of English at a university. For many years, I have balanced raising my children with a career I truly love. Teaching has given me more than a profession—it has taught me patience, empathy, and the joy of helping others grow. Because of my work, I speak English fluently, and I genuinely enjoy connecting with people from different cultures. I believe language is not just about communication; it is a bridge that brings hearts closer together. Life has brought me both beautiful moments and difficult seasons. Those experiences have helped me understand how precious genuine love truly is. Today, I believe the strongest relationships are built on respect, trust, kindness, and choosing each other every day. Outside of work, I enjoy reading, traveling, attending concerts, running, rock climbing, and camping. I love trying new experiences because I believe that a curious heart keeps life exciting. I already hold a valid U.S. visa, and if I meet the right person, I would happily embrace a new life in America. I would love to experience the country not simply as a visitor, but as someone building a meaningful life with the person I love. I am not searching for love because something is missing in my life. I already have a fulfilling career, wonderful children, and a comfortable life in China. What I hope to find is someone with whom I can share life’s next chapter—someone to laugh with, explore the world with, and create new memories together. Sometimes I imagine us walking hand in hand under the warm California sunshine, strolling along the beach, listening to the waves, watching the sunset, cooking dinner together, and ending the day by talking about all the little moments that made us smile. I hope every windy afternoon has you by my side, and every bright morning begins with both of our smiles. My friends describe me as gentle, sincere, emotionally steady, and kind. I believe the best relationships are not about depending on each other, but about inspiring one another, growing together, and turning ordinary days into a beautiful life. If my story speaks to your heart, I would be delighted to hear from you. Perhaps one simple message is all it takes for two lives to begin a beautiful new journey together.
Wei
Diamond
Verified
47
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Yinchuan, Ningxia, China
Seeking:
Male 38 - 55
Serious relationship only - Video call first pls!
*** always need to make a VIDEO CALL before talking further! video call to prove that you and me are real. **** I'm looking for the one we can make a happy life together. I'm here seriously looking for my man, my life partner, I would say I'm a loving woman, affectionate, caring, understanding. independend also traditional. I'm well educated, doing the works i love, passionate with my life. I'm also quite straightfoward, just keep things simple. just be sincere and true to myself. Giving love and receiving love make me happy. I value careness, warmth, kindness and good communication, more into man who is sincere, calm, bit old fastioned. I like nature, the greeness, and the calmness from it. I like cooking, reading, watching movies, and things about arts. Sometimes practice singing, do gym keeping myself heathy and fit. I also like simplicity style of things.. Just a simple person wants a simple life. I dream of traveling around with the man I love. emmmm ... anything you want to know just ask me.
Selina✅
Standard Member
Verified
43
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Ningbo, Zhejiang, China
Seeking:
Male 45 - 55
Building a beautiful future together
English-fluent, well-educated, and deeply family-oriented, I’m a positive and outgoing soul looking for something real. I believe the best connections happen through sincere, face-to-face conversations, so I’m always up for a great video chat. I bring a mix of warmth, intellect, and a lighthearted sense of humor to everyday life. I’m comfortable in my own skin, love the natural look, and prefer spending my energy on things that truly matter: exploring nature, photography, cooking up delicious meals, playing badminton, and laughing with good company (dogs included!).
Lily
Standard Member
45
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Male 38 - 48
marriage minded, looking for serious relationship
Love is not a matter of counting days. It makes everyday special and unique. Perhaps we are apart by thousands of miles, or we have been following each other's footprints but have not met. That's just life! :-) however, I always believe if we were the right one for each other, we still will find each other. Don't you think so? Who travels for love finds a thousand miles not longer than one. If you are ready to take my hand, even if you were at the other side of the world, i will fly to you! i hope the day coming soon , specially in the current virus situation :-) I would say I am a passionate, sweet and beautiful girl. :) And I am an animal lover. I have three lovely cats,before i adopted them they were all stray cats.the oldest one is 16 years old.. :-) I enjoy arts, gym, traveling, dancing, etc, have ever traveled to Central, Eastren and Southern of Europe, North America, Middle East,Australia, Southest Asia etc.. I am looking for someone who is willing to hold my hand to explore the world and enjoy the journey of life together. Life is too short for games. Right? :-) If you still believe in love, let's take the chance, bringing smiles and happiness to each other. Listen to the voice in our hearts, then follow it. If I may the one you are looking for :-)
Sara
Standard Member
44
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Xiamen, Fujian, China
Seeking:
Male 30 - 65
“From laughter to sunsets — let’s share it all.”
I’m Easygoing genuine, and enjoy both quiet moments and lively days. I love good food, meaningful talks, and traveling or going on little adventures together. I value kindness, honesty, and a sense of humor — life feels better when it’s shared with someone who appreciates both peace and excitement.
Nona
Standard Member
48
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Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Male 46 - 64
A charming woman seeking my gentle giant...
I am a mature, healthy, and charismatic woman who truly loves life. I enjoy reading, traveling, cycling, and meeting new interesting friends. I still carry a curious spirit toward the world and hold deep reverence for life. I hope to embrace as many diverse experiences as possible in my lifetime.
Winny
Standard Member
46
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Huizhou, Guangdong, China
Seeking:
Male 44 - 80
Not beauty, sweet, honest
Glad that meet you and talk with you here. But I am looking for life partner not I attend beauty contest. Please don't let me show you my legs, boobs or body just start talking. Accept video chatting as let you know I am a real person, not fake. Thanks.
V
Standard Member
Verified
43
•
Dandong, Liaoning, China
Seeking:
Male 50 - 54
Scammers are everywhere
Hi there. Thank you for your stay. I’m living in China, not in New York. I login this dating site in when I was New York for vacation. I can speak fluent English & I’m loyal, family oriented , optimistic, easygoing , considerate ,always put myself in other people’s shoes…but no one is perfect, I come here just for my future husband who could stay with me for the rest of my life. Not everybody is lucky enough to come across the right one,but still believe there must be someone waiting for me. Being late with the right person is better than rushing with the wrong one.
Yu
Standard Member
43
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Qingdao, Shandong, China
Seeking:
Male 40 - 55
❤️I am looking for my soulmate and lover seriously
I am Yu .My real name.I am serious about finding my love and soulmate, the one with whom I will build a beautiful family and marriage, spend the rest of my life, and grow old together 1, I always enjoy the nature. Swimming operating [kaiyō] and running are my favorite sports. I have a healthy lifestyle and strong family values since I have good and transitional family education 2, I am a "water baby" who loves doing things by the water and likes walking by the beach. The ocean is not far from my home. I. run along one beautiful long river almost every morning and there is a nice lake close to my home in my community. I also love walking along it after dinner. I often do this by myself when I am alone. And that my lover kisses me in the rain ocean, river, one shower or bathtub is a romantic and special thing for me.I love doing these simple but romantic things with my sweetheart..❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ 3, I have experienced a lot of pain and hurt in my heart. But I still believe that there is a beautiful and precious love in the big and noisy world no matter how old I am or no matter what happened. As it happens between my mom and dad. I still believe my future husband and lover is out there looking for me too. 4, I like and keep learning new things, like the English language, gardening, financial technology analysis, psychology, photography, cooking, and so on. I have done it for many years 5, I was born in November 1978 and live in an amazing seaside city in Asia 6, My mom and daddy have one super long, stable, and nice marriage which is more than 55 years. For me the marriage is still the best way to cherish and love each other. I am here for the one .the only one .the forever one.I know you are also looking for me in another place of this noise and big world .I believe you can find me and get me. So if you feel we match our "Seeking", don't hesitate to write one "longer message" to me because too simple and cruel messages like only "Hi or Hello, Now you are so pretty or How are you? "Are so easy to drown in a sea of messages which I receive:) ððar there is no "long-term relationship" in your search target or no real picture of you through your profile, sorry Then, your messages to me will even never be opened by me no matter who you are or where you are from. Because our goals are completely different.
Zoe
Standard Member
49
•
Beijing, Beijing, China
Seeking:
Male 41 - 57
Scammer filter
I'm a good woman who is smart, sensitive, humorous, family oriented, genuine, helpful, caring, responsible, seriouse minded, honest, a problem solver. I very much enjoy outdoors, I like hiking, diving and traveling. I am looking for a marriage!
Sunshine
Standard Member
49
•
Haikou, Hainan, China
Seeking:
Male 40 - 55
I will certainly be an amazing surprise for you.
This is Sunshine from Hainan island, very glad to see you here. My character is just like my name, optimal, cheery, always bring sunshine like warmth to the people around me. I like Sunshine, beaches, flowers, animals I had been engaged in early childhood education for many years. Always one of children’s favorite teacher.: I love music and worship in church choir. now I am taking lessons learning how to play guzheng.I also Like to do exercise by traditional Chinese dance, have few students start to learn from me online now and I really enjoy it because I live in an lsland, my home close to the river and beach, so I often go swimming and I enjoy all kinds of Water-related sports. When I have a holiday, I like to travel to different places. hope one day we can travel together.
ueka
Standard Member
45
•
Hangzhou, Zhejiang, China
Seeking:
Male 40 - 70
骗子太多已删帐号
There are so many scammers, I've lost my patience and deleted my account. It's not that I don't want to talk about it, it's just that I'm not sure I want to speak about it.
Carrie
Standard Member
46
•
Panjin, Liaoning, China
Seeking:
Male 48 - 99
Life is a journey
well, If you have read this I think you already saw my beautiful photo, haha. Life is too short to waste I am single Chinese female looking for a serious relationship leading to a happy marriage . I enjoy nature and simple pleasure in life . I like animal and like spending time with my dog. I want to find someone to share the rest of my life .
Jessica
Standard Member
47
•
Guangzhou, Guangdong, China
Seeking:
Male 40 - 55
Only nice Caucasian guy, no scammers, tks
I am an affectionate and nice person, can accept new culture and new things, like travelling, playing Guzheng,writing and reading, gardening and also doing some cooking during my spare time... I think blue-eyed western guys are so cool......
Glendie
Standard Member
42
•
Shaoguan, Guangdong, China
Seeking:
Male 56 - 84
honesty and genuine heart with love is more better
I am a very loyal, down-to-earth, and understanding woman who knows what is right to do at the right time. I like listening in order to acquire more knowledge and talk when needed. I am loving and fun to stay with; I prefer natural and pure happiness. I am not the type that depends her happiness on materialistic things for pleasure. I am a considerate woman, faithful, and loyal I don't like fighting and lying. I prefer peace, love, caring, and unity, and always ready to respect and listen to my man whenever he has something to inform me about
Ruby
Standard Member
46
•
Wuhan, Hubei, China
Seeking:
Male 50 - 68
Hi, I'm Ruby, an enthusiastic sales engineer
Hi, I'm Ruby, an enthusiastic sales engineer. In daily life, I love nature and like to challenge myself, such as climbing, running and other sports. These hobbies help me develop the character of perseverance and never give up. Besides, I am also keen on listening to music, watching movies, shopping and traveling. These hobbies make my life more colorful. I am both introverted and extroverted. I am good at communicating with people and can handle interpersonal relationships well. In my career, I always adhere to my goals and meet every challenge with confidence. In the emotional life, I am willing to pay sincere and care, and the other half of the common experience of life. The romantic warmth in my mind is to share the joy and sorrow of life with someone who knows me and loves me. In the cold winter, snuggling up to each other in the warm embrace, listening to each other's voice; Under the bright stars, make a good wish together. I believe that as long as there is love, our life will be full of sunshine and warmth.
Coco
Standard Member
47
•
Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking:
Male 40 - 55
A best friend to cherish and love
Kind, easy-going, friendly, calm, humorous, with broad thinking, passionate about life, and willing to support those around him. Have been working and living in international environment, so well communicate both in Chinese and English. Quite focus on personal growth, enjoy traveling, gym, culture discovery, cooking, documentaries, meditation, volunteering and music performance. I would like to find a healthy long-term relationship that may lead to a happy marriage. A warm, happy, and relaxing home will become our best final destination.
Sherry
Standard Member
48
•
Dalian, Liaoning, China
Seeking:
Male 45 - 65
Looking for my Mr. Right
I'm a sincere, reliable, caring and passionate woman who is always positive and grateful in life. I love traveling, listening to music, watching movies, hiking, and doing yoga and Pilates. I am divorced with a 15-year-old daughter. I have been working with westerners since I graduated from university. My work experience has given me an international perspective and I enjoy the blending of Chinese and Western cultures. I'm here looking for a reliable, positive, caring and emotionally gentleman as my soul mate to spend the rest of my life with. I hope we can trust, understand, accompany and support each other no matter what happens. I've travelled to North America, South America, Europe and Asia. I hope my soul mate also loves travelling. My dream is to travel around the world with you, and discover and experience every happy moment that belongs to us.
Candice
Standard Member
41
•
Shenyang, Liaoning, China
Seeking:
Male 38 - 55
Looking for my love
I'm a kind, romantic, optimistic, open-minded woman. I'm curious about other cultures. I like traveling around the world. I love ocean and nature. I do yoga and jogging in daily life to keep fit and healthy. Also I like sailing, snorkeling and diving. I have fun from reading books and watching movies. I am good at finding happiness in small things. I am into the practice of mindfulness.
Xuan
Standard Member
Verified
46
•
Beijing, Beijing, China
Seeking:
Male 18 - 53
A lifelong companion, not temporary comfort
I live in Beijing and enjoy a peaceful, orderly life. I love fitness, quiet walks, home cooking, cultural travel, and meaningful in‑depth conversations. I cherish inner harmony and sincere human connection. Well‑educated, calm and thoughtful. A healthy relationship rests upon mutual trust, open communication, equal dedication, and whole‑hearted exclusive loyalty. Once we commit to one another, there can be no parallel romantic options. I fully respect reasonable personal space. Still, blurred romantic boundaries and half‑hearted commitment do not belong between us. I am not interested in casual flirting, transitional companionship, or endless online chatting with no real‑world meeting plan. I will not be someone’s temporary comfort to get through difficult emotional phases. Mind games, erratic communication and one‑sided effort are unwelcome. I value kindness, yet I am not here to rescue anyone. True partnership means side‑by‑side progress, where no one bears the other’s life burden alone. For me, love demands undivided care and attention. I am not suited for tangled multi‑party emotional dynamics. I hope to meet someone whose heart is free to give fully to me. If you share this vision for a lasting shared future, please feel free to get in touch.
Cecilia
Standard Member
48
•
Beijing, Beijing, China
Seeking:
Male 37 - 55
Looking for my Mr. Right.
I am here only looking for one thing. That is my future partner. I consider myself a romantic and positive lady. I have a passion for life. So I have various kinds of hobbies. I am good at piano, guzheng, Chinese painting, Chinese calligraphy, Beijing opera performances, and I can also speak multiple languages. Because I have studied and worked abroad before. For me, the fit of the soul is the most important. In a relationship, respect and honesty are the foundation. I always respect others and treat them with sincerity. If I meet the right person, I will give him all my love.
Jing
Standard Member
42
•
Tianjin, Tianjin, China
Seeking:
Male 34 - 56
Can we recognize each other's souls?
I am joyful, optimal, nave but profound, loving, caring, loyal and romantic. I like to find beauty in life and learn the new valuable things constantly. As a woman, I think internal growth is more important than the success in society. Keep a good balance between life, work and self growth is an art for me. To be the best version of myself is the best present I. Give to my future partner
Lisa
Standard Member
44
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Xi'an, Shaanxi, China
Seeking:
Male 38 - 56
China Lady looking for a gentle man
Hi .This is Lisa from China .I am 43 years old.looking for a warm hearted ,kind ,friendly man.I can speak English and Chinese.my job is international trade businesses in Xian city of China.I am very kind and easy to get along with woman.Loving life very much! I would like to with you for logging, traveling, eating, cooking
Zoe
Standard Member
Verified
42
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Chengdu, Sichuan, China
Seeking:
Male 45 - 60
We could make happy life together!
I am a passionate, cheerful, and laid-back girl who is on the lookout for genuine connections with a genuine man. I believe that love is spontaneous and spreading laughter with quick wit. I cherish my Chinese culture which is family-oriented and family members closely united together. I am looking for a gentleman who shares the similar family value with me to start a new adventure together. A gentleman if you are kind, positive and following a healthy lifestyle, we could possibly explore a meaningful relationship leading to marriage in the future.
Tanyi
Standard Member
40
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Nanjing, Jiangsu, China
Seeking:
Male 38 - 55
Chinese teacher looking for an interesting soul.
Hi. My name is Tanyi. I am from China and now live in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. I used to be an English-Chinese bilingual TV host, and now I am a mandarin teacher using English as the medium language. I am very happy to give students knowledge. I like the self-discipline and healthy lifestyle, healthy food, regular work and rest, which makes me full of energy every day. I have many hobbies, playing badminton, dancing, traveling, Delicious food, and occasionally playing lessons. I am learning Chinese Gongbi painting by myself. My diversified Hobbies make my life as colorful as a rainbow. I like to picnic with my family, travel together and watch movies together. The miles of my family give me strength. I am a kind and happy girl. I believe in good luck by saying good things, doing good things, being grateful and silling
Kala
Standard Member
47
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Shenzhen, Guangdong, China
Seeking:
Male 34 - 80
Want to have a happy family
Firstly, I am a good mum and like exercises with my daughter together,every night I do jogging around the park.If I can meet a good husband and at the same time he must be a good stepfather,i will love him for my whole life .I want to know if you would like to join me?
selina
Standard Member
Verified
42
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Wuhan, Hubei, China
Seeking:
Male 32 - 60
Tired of talking ?come to tureOrd. Mb.are not real
I am a brave, honor girl? \Nwork in Korean Consulate Wuhan? As we've been this site, both of us are serious to seek for our soulmates. I don't like hypocrisy? ? Still looking for a man who really love me? I want a strong sense of family responsibility. Travel together once a year. We're all looking for someone who can give Each other a new life, and that's true. You can move to China. But must be rich people just can live in China? I don't like someone just talk and talk? West our time I am still third for sweet love and then marry love.I have an excellent life in China. take me from here and regard?
cici
Standard Member
Verified
47
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Beijing, Beijing, China
Seeking:
Male 40 - 53
Love life and look for a responsible partner
Half of the time is rooted in the career, and half of the time is to love. Fitness practice is self-discipline, music hides emotions, travel is to see different human fireworks, photography is the instant beauty, and food is the most down-to-earth healing in life. I hope that a person of the same frequency can share three meals and four seasons, and go to the mountains, rivers, lakes and seas together.
Jade
Standard Member
46
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Jinan, Shandong, China
Seeking:
Male 40 - 60
A sincere person
I’m Jade,coming from Shandong,China.I have various hobbies and social experiences.Unpredicted surprises in life will bring me happiness and strength.I love mild climate,feeling the sunshine and soft breeze can make my day!In terms of relationship,patience and mutual understanding can be a bonus for me.I have been single for a long time,I’m living alone and I’m ready to start a new life chapter with my future soulmate.
jenny
Standard Member
43
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Shenzhen, Guangdong, China
Seeking:
Male 39 - 62
looking forward my life partner.
I have a dignified appearance,well- proportioned figure and a kind heart charming woman.I hold traditional values.I am gentle,pure, intelligent,elegant yet free-s pirited.In my spare time,I enjoy reading,watching TV and movies at home.I also go outdoors for exercises,walks and travelling.I cherish ,verything genuine and natural,and dislike all pretence.I like small and child.My value lifestly is self-confidence,,independence,self-respect and self-love are my lifemottos .Inthis vast world,many people pass us by.It is easy to meet someone,yet hard to find someone who truly loves you.I don't give up ,I hope to meet the right person at this stage of life,to have a sincere relationship and plan our future together.
Evarlove
Standard Member
42
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Dongguan, Guangdong, China
Seeking:
Male 45 - 70
Serious relationship and marriage
Sweet, loving, tender, caring, honest, passionate, hardworking, I believe in love and everybody deserve to be happy and have someone to share my life beautiful moments of life together and if that is what you desire we can take the journey together
Anne
Standard Member
47
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Beijing, Beijing, China
Seeking:
Male 45 - 60
Here for no game .
I was born in Anhui, and came to Beijing upon graduation, and have lived here for 22 years. Beijing has a rich history and culture, and holds too many of my youth and memories. This city has witnessed my footsteps of striving for success, and I. cherish everything I have today, my home, my life, and my children. I enjoy traveling and cooking for my family and friends. My friends say that I am gentle in character, and that I work hard and take good care of my children. In my free time, I often feel that my life would be more colorful if I had someone to accompany me, laugh with me, and play with me. Water will evacuate, fire will go out, but love can defy fate. Will I find him here?
Amy
Standard Member
45
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Luoyang, Henan, China
Seeking:
Male 40 - 50
I'm a book,feel free to read me.
I'm outgoing, independent, optimistic and confident. My friends and family also say so to me.I'm good at socializing while staying alone also brings me happiness.I'm willing to help people in need and I'm adaptive to different situations.My life motto: Walk my own way and there is no need to care about the judgment from others too much.
Joyce
Standard Member
44
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Leshan, Sichuan, China
Seeking:
Male 45 - 55
Live for myself!
I'm a genuine, optimal doctor with a great sense of humor. Despite past challenges, I believe laughter is the key to Happiness. I love my family, cherish life, enjoy sports, and am pastoral about medicine. I dream of romantic love and new adventures. Could you be the one to join me on this journey?
Amy
Standard Member
44
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Zhangjiajie (Dayong), Hunan, China
Seeking:
Male 44 - 58
Where love is, there's home.
I am a simple person, living a life of two points and one line every day.Growing up in the countryside in the mountains,I never walked out of the mountain before I was 18.Reading calligraphy, music, traveling, camping, growing and making food are my favorite things to do.Swimming is my favorite.If you like Chinese food, I happen to be a good cook.
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