English
Français
Deutsch
Nederlands
Italiano
日本語
Suomi
Norsk
Svenska
Português
العربية
Dansk
한국어
Polski
中文(简)
Bhs Melayu
ภาษาไทย
Español
Türkçe
tiếng việt
Русский язык
Bahasa Indonesia
中文(繁)
Čeština
Magyar
Româneşte
မြန်မာဘာသာ
ភាសាខ្មែរ
Ελληνικά
Қазақ
Login
Meet Indonesian Singles Over 40
View Singles Now
Review your matches for free
Access to advanced messaging features
Trusted site backed by Cupid Media
Asian Dating
/
Women
/
Dating
/
Indonesian
/
Age
/
40-49
36 - 70 of 100
Selly
Platinum Member
Verified
41
•
Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 30 - 60
Not a delicate flower...
Oh hey, Selly here. Thanks for sparing a little of your time to read this. I am an Indonesian from the Batak ethnicity, single, never married, with no kids, and I'm a chatty ISTJ. Long distance is not a problem for me; if we make a good match, I don't mind coming to visit you. I am not desperate, nor am I a loser. I am still able to think rationally and can read my surroundings just fine. If I don't respond to your message, I may think we don't make a good match, no offense. It's not me being smug, it's just me trying to save both of our time. I am a practical person and I rarely do small talk, though I know how to for the sake of being polite. I know the feeling of being ignored and rejected, just like many of you do. I take no offense, but I probably would block you after. I know my worth, and if you can't see it, then I guess it's for the best. Good luck in whatever you're searching for. FYI, there are many catfish/fake profiles here, so excuse me if I sound guarded. You can never trust people here 'til you see them in person. The site just won't do anything about it. 🤷🏻♀️
Adrina
Standard Member
40
•
Medan, Sumatera Utara, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 47 - 52
I can't change my actual age on my profile, I'm 48
I don’t like to be fake, I want the real, I’m very sincere and full of honesty, and loyal in relationships, I don’t want to hurt and disappoint one another, understanding in an open relationship with each other, I always respect partners, and do not like there is a lie in a relationship, and for me communication is very important, I am independent and work hard, even though I work, I really love family and children, I am an ordinary woman, and divorced, have 1 child, but only work in a nursing home, “I just want to find my soul mate this year, because I have been alone for too long 5 years, happiness is not only because of money.” but if God still gives me a chance to find my soul mate in this year, I am very happy, and can share that happiness with my soul mate, are you far away there..will be. my soulmate?😘
Andra
Standard Member
47
•
Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 55 - 65
Leads to marriage
I am widowed and live alone, cause my husband had been passed away, 8years ago because he was sick. I live alone atm, in Lombok island, next to Bali. I have 3 children, they are older than 18 years old. I work as marketing for part time in Lombok. I like being outside activity, i do erobic, swimming, yoga, and singing.
Carolina
Standard Member
Verified
42
•
Denpasar, Bali, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 38 - 48
Scammers, don't waste your time!! it Will be hard
Sophisticated Asian Woman with traditional values.. a bit of humor, a bit of intelligence, and a lot of love to offer ☺️ I enjoy traveling, let see if I can meet a travel partner before another pandemic ;) I love walking in nature while enjoying fresh air, capturing beautiful landscapes through photography. I also enjoy cooking, especially Asian dishes..Want to try Asian flavours??😉
Ketrine
Standard Member
Verified
44
•
Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 41 - 55
I Prefer an Equal Relationship
I am Honest, Faithful, Sweet, Attractive, Friendly, Love Cook, Loving and Caring Woman. I am an independent woman, who is ready to give the best for a partner, will sincere love him, caring about him, and Respect. I am romantic and Passionate. I have never married, no kids and highly respect honor as a woman. I really like gym, because the gym can make me look healthy and fit, and get the ideal body shape. I really know that if I want to get a good and honest man, everything must start from my self. So I will get that good and honest man. All about take and give. Here I am looking for love, a life partner. I am a woman who loves result and success oriented.
Joanna
Standard Member
Verified
49
•
Padang, Sumatera Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 46 - 56
Are you the one?
Hi there 🙂 Thanks for visiting my profile I am genuine for sure.. honest & loyal, i like to smile & laugh (you can see that from my pics 😊)...love humour. I love to cook &baking, so i hope you love to eat 😄, gardening, crocheting, travelling, I like cycling, walking, line dance, swimming and any others sport to keep me fit and in shape. I like to try new things.. I am not rushing, but am looking for a relationship that lead to a marriage... I have 2 children, and we are a bundle Anything else you want to know, pls just text me..
yuli
Standard Member
45
•
Surabaya, Jawa Timur, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 38 - 56
if u interest just sent messages
I love cooking, traveling to a new place, do culinary tour with family, walk in the beach, go to cinema and gardening. I am a little bit spoiled but also independently. Caring and loyal to one man only. Family oriented. For me, Life is grace and we should know how to appreciate it. Love is bless so we must know how to respect it and put God will inside it.
Miss R
Standard Member
43
•
Kuta, Bali, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 35 - 54
Slim sexy n naughty one ;)
Im born n grew up in a small town in indo it didnt mean i have no brain like most city ppl say. Well im a agricultural girl into dragon fruit farming.apart from that i run my homestay . So thats all about me if u want to know more about me just text me. RUDE GUY LOOKING ABOUT SEX CAM BACK OFF !!!!!!!!
ade
Standard Member
45
•
Kuta, Bali, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 46
i need someone whos ready to settle down^_~
a romantic person, loves jokes, loyal. i love my curly hair.. hmm.. now i live in Kuta, Bali. "i don't wanna take any risk with playboy or summertime man.. coz playing is just for kids".. i love cook, love reading a book..hmm philosopy.., love to watch tv.. Loves animals.. Wants kids..^_^ lets talk..than u know me better..
Nia
Standard Member
47
•
Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 35 - 58
Im just an ordinary woman
Im pretty stable, simple lady, with simple thoughts, who lives a simple life. Im working as accountant. I’m little shy but I'm a good listener, I like to have good communication & have a wonderful relationship with family & friends.I consider myself a pretty trustworthy person I do believe that trust is d basis of all relations but a small mistake made, can change its entire meaning. Like just a missing ‘T’ can ‘RUST’ d relation.
Yuns
Standard Member
41
•
Surakarta, Jawa Tengah, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 44 - 57
nice to meet u🙏😇
simply woman, love nature. like to walk in the morning, i keep my body fit. my life begins after coffee ☕😄 enjoy life with simple things. like to laugh.sincere n loyal. like to learn something new. i am interested in learning about spirituality 🦋 self improvement now. i am not fanatical about my religion. i would respect and appreciate u whatever ur religion or even do not have religion. Never been married no kids. looking for a long term relationship n marriage but i am not in a rush. lets chat, get to know each other, create the connection, let it go naturally, n see what happens. c u on the next chapter 💐🤗
Noona
Standard Member
45
•
Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 48 - 58
Read my profile first before sending me message!
I am looking for a serious relationship that leads to marriage, and I am not a fake person. I’m not here to play around or play hearts, because I don’t want to waste my time or waste yours. So if you just want to play hearts, ask for money or look for s*x or a scammer, just skip my profile. And don’t ask or send WhatsApp number if it’s just for ghosting purposes, better chat with each other first on this app if you already connected then move on to another messaging app. Thank you 🙏 I am NOT INTERESTED in men from Asia, Africa, Nigeria, India, Turkey, Pakistan, Egypt and the Middle eastern countries (not meaning to be racist) and if your profile is blank and there are no photos, please do not send a message as I will not respond. And I am also not interested in men under 45, so sorry your message will not be replied.
Devi
Standard Member
46
•
Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 42 - 55
A moslemah.... simple and humble women.
Introvert but easy to minggle. Like humour, Humble and love to involved in social activity. Open minded and like to discuss everything with my partner in life. If you are in the same page kindly text on my IG @devibrams07 coz i'm not member of this app cannot read your text
Vie
Standard Member
43
•
Depok, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 48 - 63
conversation is important for relationship
i am a funny girl, loving, loyal, hard working and very careful with my relationship with someone, i am not tipical a jealous waman, i let my partner free for his time whenever he want because i trust my partner always, i can take my position if he cheating on me, i am quite person and doesn't like arguing i am working at my own shop in jakarta, i am not rich but good enough to pid all my bills since i got divorce 6 years ago, it's my habit working alone, traveling alone.. alone but not lonely now in my age i starting missing someone to have cuddling, walking in shakehand, have a good small family in rest of our life i don't like seeing a man in a kitchen, moping, brushing... don't know why my skin didn't white or black.. eemm tanned i think because i was born from tropical country thants all about me, thanks for open and read my profile
Wulan
Standard Member
43
•
Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 38 - 56
i like honesty, hate liars.
I am half Balinese but life n grow up in Jakarta, Indonesia. I do love honesty and wanting a faithful person to be with. i am also a bit introvert and like to straightforward in talking. hate drama in life, but i love to watch it on tv. still love marvel, action movie and K-drama on TV. I want a real person to be with not a scammer. if u interested to know me you can send me a message.
Nadine
Standard Member
41
•
Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 47
Real man are welcomed
Well, I'm only ordinary women with pure heart and have faith to God I'm honest, loyal, from good family and open minded If you wanna stay, stay forever, but if you just wanna play game or if you just stop by a while, please don't stand in front of the door and block others from entering My heart is not for games For scammers, don't ever try me with any tricks cos is very easy for me to know it 😉
Enda
Standard Member
Verified
41
•
Bekasi, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 32 - 55
爱情就像打游戏,有时输有时赢,但最重要是开心
您好,我是来自印度尼西亚的中文翻译,已有十多年与中国客户合作的经验,对中国文化、家庭价值观有深入理解和尊重。 我性格成熟稳重,真诚、专一,注重沟通和彼此的成长。生活让我学会了珍惜,感情让我更加相信缘分。我喜欢阅读、旅行和了解不同的文化。 希望能遇到一位重视家庭、有责任感的中国男士,一起建立稳定、幸福的生活。如果你也相信缘分,我们可以慢慢了解彼此
Lidia
Standard Member
Verified
46
•
Jambi, Jambi, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 62
Read my profile pls
I am 48 years old, real, have a good personality , honest, respectful, have good attitude. I like zumba dance ,line dance and try to keep in a good shape. My pictures are recent. If you want naked pic and only want sex chat pls dont contact me !!
Indah
Standard Member
44
•
Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 45 - 68
No exs issues please
If you want to get to know me take the time to find out who I am, I'm very honest about who I am and what I want. I actually want to be in a relationship at some point. I am not interested in hooking up. If that's what you're looking for, please feel absolutely free to continue your search at a local bar. I actually want love and happiness. 🙏🏼🌴🧘🏼🦋🐚👒🕉📿
Ruslia
Standard Member
Verified
45
•
Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 30 - 55
Please be good person
Please Read before you interest: I'm a simple person, humorous, honest and serious about getting relationship with someone. Optimistic about anything, and positive thinking of anything.I never do anything for to get man in this site, even only for naughty and hot pic or for hot video call too. Cause when you love someone never do that and when you want it that's mean you only want for fun not serious in relationship. Please don't asking for nude video call or sex on cam.... it's not I'm not open minded but True Love not always about sex...I believe Good Woman will find Good Man.
Ami
Standard Member
Verified
40
•
Luwuk, Sulawesi Tengah, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 42 - 54
Newest main pic. Read my profile please.
My main profile pic is my newest pic but I think I have darker skin tone than in the pic. I've tried to upload the newest one many times but AD reject it, I dont know why. Anyway I am single, never married, no kid, a chemical engineering diploma graduated with over 10 years career in banking field before decide to retired for personal reason (I'll tell you once we get close). I like traveling, motorbike, writing blog and podcast. I love dog and cat, rescue strays sometimes. I'm a Christian, not a religious one but never want to convert to other religion in case you have different religion than mine, I never interested to change my religion. I have brown skin, I enjoy the sun, not a fan of brightening lotion because I like beach and scuba diving. In advance, I'm not a standard Indo woman. I maybe looked very simple and common at home (Indo culture) but I'm smart and adaptive when I'm in travel because I can express my self freely. I read and watch news, any news. I analysis things from many other sides (prolly because I was financial analysist in bank) before make my own opinion and understand why people have different opinion than mine so maybe we can agree to disagree (please understand a couple not always have same opinion). Because of this I need an open minded man who expected a smart woman in me. I'm not a tiktok woman and I expect the same from you (I hate that app, sorry). I have small tattoos I designed by myself almost unseen. I made it because I like traveling, for me tattoo is a smart way that will help to identify person in any case. In relationship, I'm a caring woman. Take care of my man is my priority, that's how I raised in Indo culture. I know cooking but not an expert, I can learn cooking your fave foods maybe.
Rya.yusran
Standard Member
41
•
Kepulauan Riau, Kepulauan Riau, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 34 - 45
Seeking good guy for marriage
I'm here looking for serious relationship,for u guys out there.if you looking for marriage too,pls message me.i'm simple person ,i love traveling.try something new,culture,meet new people,i like cooking ,reading ,watching movie,hiking,climbing .camping ,other outdor actifities .and i love sports
Ivy
Standard Member
Verified
44
•
Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 38 - 47
Read my profile 1st before u contact me
My name is Ivy, I'm an ordinary person who loves to laugh, loving, kind, caring, family oriented & faithful. I also enjoy traveling, watch movie, and listen to music.. I am honest, good listener, have a good sense of humor, I do val
rahmawati
Standard Member
48
•
Bandung, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 50 - 60
single stay home mom with a kid
I love what's surrounding me : people, places, nature and even the air that I breath. Although things can be very dissappointing and left wound, self respect & respect to others is always the value that I keep although I seldom put it in words. If word "settle" mean something for him, then he share the same thing with me.
Asteria
Standard Member
48
•
Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 45 - 60
Dare to write a new chapter in life
Honest, independent, able to accept differences, open minded, have integrity. Healthy woman, I prefer security and comfort also I don't like pressure. During my vacation I prefer to enjoy the beauty of nature. I'm passionate at baking. I also like ga
viorent
Standard Member
47
•
Surabaya, Jawa Timur, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 39 - 55
I'm a single mother, honest, humorous and kind.
No Answer
Ling 霖
Standard Member
Verified
41
•
Medan, Sumatera Utara, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 42 - 50
Looking for committed relationship
I'm here to meet someone for serious relationship. Thanks for checking out my profile! I like to travel, scuba diving, watch movies, and sometimes hiking. I have never been married, I don't have kids.
Novitha
Standard Member
Verified
45
•
Denpasar, Bali, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 58
I am looking for serious relationship
Hi My name is Novi I'm a positive person and I try to live life as best as I can. I'm an active an outgoing person, and I try to find time to try new things. I am fun loving, caring and a good listener. I try to care about the people around me. I'm determined, independent and I know what I want in life.And i love pets
Nisa
Standard Member
46
•
Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 46 - 48
It's enchanting to know you
Hello, i'm Nisa, insecure with my English here, If i make mistake, please do correct me. I am looking for a marriage. 😊 I wont respond if i feel you're not looking the same thing, ok✌️😬 I would love to know you more in this app before we share our personal number, so don't ask my number before you know me well, it's wasting energy to move to another app to find out we're not good together. You can ask anything about me, It saved me alot of time than thinking what should i put here🤔 I already put some information, from profile questions, i'm sure you can view it briefly. I'm sorry if i didn't respond to your message, because it is written i have to upgrade... i'm downgrade😅 just kidding, i'm a standard member here, i can't view your message🙏 so, please forgive me, Try to be nice, But, i can't please everyone 😶 I want to add, some statements i got and i wanna share to you: : No matter how busy you are, if you are genuinely interested in a person, you will find the time for them. : a person's effort is a reflection of how they feel about you, and how much they are interested in you. : Relationships nowadays are tougher. Texting makes it easier for people to hide and play games. : If a person wants to genuinely get to know you, make effort to meet up and get to know, they just not continuously text you. : People don't break up anymore. One person acts like an 4sshole, till the other person can't take it anymore and then walks away.
Juli
Standard Member
40
•
Bogor, Jawa Barat, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 35 - 60
Honesty is the best quality of life
I'm not easy to get close to someone and I'm not good at describing myself, if someone wants to be my friend and teach me the language I'll be very grateful, I'm not a materialistic woman, I'm ready to feel enough with what I have, I’ll be friends honestly, I’m soft-hearted and like to cook if you’re looking for friends to eat with, send me your favorite menu 😜 \NAND if you think that getting to know me has a downside, think again! 😌
Rika
Standard Member
40
•
Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 37 - 55
My name is Rika
I stop clear a premium member.so I can’see love.if you like, you can Chat with me directly. Thank you so much. My name is: Richa. Religion: Christian. I am the oldest of four siblings. Educational background in economic Management. I am a hard worker and I work in the oil and gas industry. My hobbie are reading, traveling, cooking, baking cakes and listening to spiritual songs - I am very grateful in my life because God loves me so much. That’s why I believe in God – I join this application wanting to find a partner who can make me better and can be together in joy and sorrow for the rest of my life and of course the man I hope for is someone who loves God
Yuyun
Standard Member
48
•
Denpasar, Bali, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 55 - 70
Looking for a husband is not playing games
Simple women, polite, loving, honest and loyal, I am looking for a husband or friend, I work with visa / passport agent, transportation and villa in Bali, I can help if you want. I am not a drinker. Scammers stay away please 🙏
MH
Standard Member
46
•
Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 50 - 59
Ordinary Women
I have devoted almost half of my life to take care of my father, my mother, and my sister. They were passed away now but their love still remains in my heart. Maybe it’s a bit late …I think it's time for me to think about myself and my future with my future partner. I’m not a type of women who asking for money from someone else, gold digger or party girl. I'm a silent person i don't like to argue and fight for not important things, a bit shy and quite conservative women.
Yunita
Standard Member
40
•
Banjarmasin, Kalimantan Selatan, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 40 - 45
read my profile crefully first don't waste my time
Hi, I'm Yunita silalahi from indonesia,single mother of 2 children,I am an Asian woman who adheres to eastern traditions.. currently I'm independent, have a steady income and don't depend on anyone.. I registered on this app to expand my social circle, but I don't rule out the possibility of have a romantic relationship whose goal is marriage..😉
Mary
Standard Member
Verified
46
•
Denpasar, Bali, Indonesia
Seeking:
Male 47 - 60
scammers go away
I am an ordinary woman. I really like going out with my family… I don’t like being sad for too long. The journey of my life has brought me to become wiser. I can't be open about me here... I promise I will speak honestly when I meet... I hope you are the last part of my life.
Next
first
Previous
Next
last
First Name
I'm a
Male
Female
I'm looking for
Male
Female
Age
18
19
20
21
22
23
24
25
26
27
28
29
30
31
32
33
34
35
36
37
38
39
40
41
42
43
44
45
46
47
48
49
50
51
52
53
54
55
56
57
58
59
60
61
62
63
64
65
66
67
68
69
70
71
72
73
74
75
76
77
78
79
80
81
82
83
84
85
86
87
88
89
90
91
92
93
94
95
96
97
98
99
Email
Password
You can use letters or numbers (8 - 20 characters).
IMPORTANT: For extra security ensure that your new password is NOT the same as your email password.
Yes, I confirm that I am over 18 and agree to the
Terms of Use
and
Privacy Statement
.
View Singles Now
Processing now, please wait ...
Close
Did you mean:
Agree to terms?
Yes, I confirm that I am over 18 and agree to the
Terms of Use
and
Privacy Statement
.
Continue
Close