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Kevin
Diamond
66
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 45
I like the beach, tennis, and investing
I am a wealth manager and have my own company. I enjoy playing tennis and going to the beach near my house in California. I like good restaurants and traveling. I have been to Greece and Italy recently. I try to enjoy every day. Our weather in Southern California is incredible, and I feel fortunate to live here.
Yoli
Platinum Member
Verified
59
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 42 - 48
Curious about you 😊
Educated, cultured, and profoundly curious. A citizen of Europe, Canada, and the U.S. - places that have shaped me. A polyglot and a romantic at heart. 🌹 In love with nature, laughter, la joie de vivre, simplicity, honesty, dance, and beauty in all its forms. Fascinated by the power of love, desire, words, generosity, positivity, science, democracy, and freedom in all its forms. Passionate about Argentine Tango, sports, and yoga. Responsible and emotionally intelligent, I love children, have a contagious sense of humor, and am financially stable — I run my own software business. I offer understanding, compassion, positive ions, and can make you smile in 30 seconds flat. 🙂 San Diego is home to me and to breathtaking beaches, top universities, a vibrant Asian community, perfect weather, and a life drenched in sun and ocean mist—always beautifully in motion. Main photo from 2019; the rest are recent.
Mark
Platinum Member
64
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 44 - 56
Seeking a Chinese woman who is a gem ages44 to 55
About me… A healthy well-adjusted driven passionate man. Will always strive to reach my potential in all ways including my relationship with you. I thirst for knowledge and listen to young to old. Wisdom is everywhere. A wise man listens and considers his wife's input and advice. We all have the same amount of time. Let's maximize ours together. Time is ticking. Things I am looking in my special lady coming in the future. Two major ones…Emotional maturity and communication skills are paramount. If you are fun, fit, and feminine I am interested in you. My profile seems to say 18- 22, This s incorrect. I am seeking 44 to 55 age wise
bill
Platinum Member
20
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 45
Look on the Bright Side of Life!
Happy, enthusiastic, enjoys running, diving, traveling, funny, humorous.
SoloSoyYo
Standard Member
55
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 53
Looking for a good woman who believes in love
I am a hard working, faithful and devoted man to my family, a homebody. I would like to find a mature and calm woman who is self confident and knows how to treat you with respect and affection. I am simply looking for peace, love and tranquility in my life. If you are looking for a mature, playful man with a good sense of humor who will treat you well, perhaps we can get to know each other a little through this medium. I am a good man looking for a good woman. I am 1 0 0% faithful. Qualities that I have and am looking for that we match include being affectionate, intelligent and strong. If you are looking for someone who will hold your hand just as much at home as on the street - here I am. If you know how to love I am a man who knows how to love a woman and completely as it should be. I believe in love and loyalty and I value my close friendships. I love music and I love to sing (although I am deaf). I love to dance. I love to feel the breeze and the warmth of the sun on my skin. I love the beach as much as a cool pool. Sometimes I just need to roll down the windows, open the sunroof, turn up the music, and drive. . . so if any of this sounds good to you, maybe we can get to know each other a little. I'm looking for a good woman who is smart, funny, strong & secure in herself. I'd like to get to know someone who is a good woman to share good times with, whether to take a weekend trip or just be home and stay home and watch a movie. If you're looking for someone who will hold your hand in public and at home - I'm right here. I believe in love and loyalty and I value my close friendships. I love music and I love to sing (even though I'm tone deaf). I love to dance. I love to feel a breeze and the warmth of the sun on my skin. I love the beach as much as a crisp swimming pool. Sometimes I just need to roll down the windows, open the sunroof and turn up the music and ride. . . so if any of this sounds good to you, maybe we can get to know each other a little. Real women only please. Please no fake people, no fake eye lashes, no fake eye brows, no fake boobies, no fake personalities and no fake laughter. Please post real pictures and no filters I want to get to know real women not insecure little girls who hide behind a world of makeup and filters. If you are confident in who you are and how you really are, you don't have to be fake in any way and honestly, I have no desire to deal with someone so insecure that they won't post pictures without filters or hide their entire body. Let's just leave the insecurities and games aside at this point.
David
Standard Member
Verified
56
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 62
Last Boy-Scout Seeks YOU! ( No Habla Enspanol )
STOP AND READ: I have written alot because I seek my ONE ... you KNOW i am real because i wrote more than a sentence. Do not judge me for being who I am ... just don't reply. I do not seek Prostitutes or ghetto or loud women... just move on (please). I am a good man. A Surgical Technologist who has returned to school to obtain a higher degree. I will graduate in February 2025 and aspire to work in a Level 1 Trauma Hospital - my goal is to pull bullets out of people. I will have the ability in the future to buy US a home where YOU wish to live. Happy wife - Happy Life. Vasectomy, Disease Free, Intelligent, Introverted, Conversationalist, Humorous, Humble, Sometimes Judgemental, kind, voyer, a little dark a little light, control of my emotions, very rarely gets angry or yells and never hits. Monogamous... it is against my character to cheat. Sexual - kinky is fun and you should agree, I AM AWARE not all women enjoy sex - you should not contact me. LA Famalia - I do enjoy children but can not have more - they keep us busy and gives us purpose. I DO NOT FEAR GOD - I DO FEAR IGNORANCE! Ancient History- wants to travel globally to explore various cultures. Possibly High Functioning Autistic (but in a good way). Open minded to all religious idolatry, not ignorant.I open an open book for you to read because I seek a friend - lover - wife and even more. I am NOT for everybody... I am only for YOU. OH and I used to smoke a lot of marijuana but do not anymore because of my career choice. BUT I will smoke it every now and then in the future. So if that is a deal breaker for you ... don't write me.
Benjamin
Standard Member
52
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 38 - 55
A little rough around the edges.
Single for over 10 years. Retired US Marine. Looking for a partner in life. I have not had a woman in my life for far too long now. I am a good man. I work to improve myself both mentally and physically each day. I enjoy each day and look for the good in each moment.
Tom
Standard Member
68
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 50 - 60
Active Male
Teacher/ Basketball Coach for 38 years. Retired in 2017 but still take substitute teaching jobs. Love live music. Attend many musical concerts. Fitness is very important to me. I go to the gym regularly and play pickle ball. Gardening is also fun. I have two adult children.
Tom
Standard Member
Verified
72
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 45
Partner-seekers only. This is not a bank 😆
I like to travel, sometimes I do volunteer work. I work online part time online. AS my partner you will be sharing life with me and travelling some. I am good-natured, active, sociable, funny and smart.
Chris
Standard Member
39
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 20 - 35
Let's meet and get to know one another!
I am a happy guy and I genuinely like people. I have my own company so I am blessed to be able to have a very flexible schedule. Family is very important to me and I hope to find others that share strong family values. Reach out to me, I'd love to get to know you.
Wally
Standard Member
67
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 55
Looking for "One Last Love".
Hey there! Ever find yourself tapping your foot to the rhythm of life? I'm Wally, a retired engineer and an occasional semi-pro drummer trading in my drumsticks for a shot at my bucket list. Living in and owning a home in sunny San Diego California, I'm all about embracing the freedom of retirement and enjoying the journey of self-discovery. Physically fit, financially secure, and emotionally mature, I'm loyal, honest, and playful, non serial texter, and on the lookout for a genuine connection with “one” someone special. With two adult sons living their lives out of state, I've got the space in my heart and my home for the right person. I've got a zest for spontaneous travel – with my trusty trailer in tow, I'm always up for an adventure, whether it's a weekend getaway or a cross-country road trip. Have trailer we’ll a go. But a cautionary word to the wise, and you know who you are: I'm not here for any games or scams. If you are, please move on to the profile labeled “Fool”. If you're genuine and looking for something real, let's chat. No pressure, just good vibes with the possibility looming of something amazing. That “one last love”. 😘😊
Richard
Standard Member
Verified
79
•
San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 70
Fit elder friend and lover
As one whose inner light shines brightly, all my artmaking and social activism is dedicated to recovering and empowering the repressed sacred Feminine in our needy world. I live a simple creative life with a modest independent income and most enjoy... breathing clean air, swims in the turquoise sea, wearing a sarong, good conversation, cold beer with lime, shrimp over jasmine rice, and sunset in the swaying hammock together with you...
Bill
Standard Member
51
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Romantic Introvert. Now with 100% less beard.
@rice_src on the 'Gram. Sometimes, I am a stuck-up, half-witted, scruffy-looking nerf herder. At other times, I am covered in fur, smell like wet dog, and communicate in growls. No matter which, if the hyperdrive motivator is working, then we're doing the Kessel run in under 12 parsecs. Hang on! I love to eat. I love to cook. I love to ride bicycles. I love to swim. Sadly for my physical condition, those very much go in that order. I've also been a bit of a workaholic over the years, which hasn't helped, either. I do hope to make new mistakes, though, rather than repeat the old ones! My sense of humor relies a lot on word play and American pop culture. I'm often self-deprecating, which can bother people for some reason. I also tend to favor quantity over quality. You don't have to agree that I have a quick wit, but you can meet me half-way (that was a "half wit" joke embedded there...). You've been warned! :-) Do check the "vital statistics" and other attributes on my profile. That may save us both some time. A serious relationship is my long term goal, but I am being very picky in how I proceed. I want everyone to be happy, and if that means that you are better off with someone else, I want us to find that out as quickly as possible. And I do wish you well!! On a slightly deeper level, I'm an introvert (INTJ, strongly typed in all 4 attributes) who values a few high quality relationships, and that also makes me a good listener. You will be the center of my universe, so I'd like to understand what makes you tick. If I'm co-hosting a party, then I'm generally working the kitchen to keep the food and drink flowing. I'm not one who enjoys mingling, and I'm terrible at small talk. If you have patience with me through the awkward early stages, you may just be rewarded. I enjoy the outdoors, especially mountains and woods. I've done over 50 SCUBA dives, but I'm not really a beach kind of guy. A perfect day, for me, would be a nice hike in the mountains; swimming in a river, lake or spring; and then cuddling on the couch for dinner and a movie. Simple. :-)
Shaun
Standard Member
42
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 35
welcome to my profile
hello my name is Shaun. I'm from Los Angeles California. I live in the city my whole life and now I'm transitioning to buying land, build my home off grid and grow my own food and have animals. it's more a healthy and peaceful lifestyle. I'm 6"5 yes
Lj
Standard Member
Verified
55
•
San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 55
Interested to meet someone special for relationshi
I want to meet only someone who is serious about developing a real relationship that lead to marriage. If we both find each other as a fate. I am a well travelled and educated professional.-- I am in HK often for work. I am a good conversationalist and listener. I am reliable, punctual and responsible I love the outdoors, traveling, music, ethnic foods and new adventures. I'm looking for love, romance, friendship and a long lasting relationship. I am also very interested in learning more about HK/China, language and history. I want to find someone who will share these things with me. Please ask any question. I am happy to answer.
Artist
Standard Member
33
•
San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 24 - 40
Adventure Seeker Looking for a Partner in Crime
I'm a professional artist, and I love to fully immerse myself in my work. I paint mostly outdoor scenes, so I'm always on the go trying to find my next subject. When I'm not working, you can find me cooking up a new recipe, at a local farmer's market, or enjoying some time at the beach. At home, I love a peaceful environment — I grew up with a lot of siblings, so I'm soaking up all the calm I can!
Charles
Standard Member
62
•
San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 31 - 45
Adventurous kind hearted - looking for love
People describe me asYoung at heart, positive, active. I am a good Father, Friend, and Partner always trying to improve. I love to travel, hike, bike, swim, snorkel, ski, and anything outdoor. Scuba Diving is a passion, I am a lover, and live for the intimate times just snuggeling, holding hands, Dancing, touching...
Thanosman
Standard Member
52
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 44 - 63
Your search ends here!
I am an easy going open minded guy looking for a serious relationship. I believe in genuine connection and shared values, and I am excited to meet someone who shares this sentiments. If you’re interested to know me better , I’d love to chat and see where things go. Feel free to reach out anytime.
Ruben
Standard Member
65
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 20 - 60
I am honest, God fearing man. You found me
I am very faithful, caring, funny, love to dance, enjoy music. I retired from govt. I have 2 homes. I live in 1 and rent the other out. My youngest daughter lives with me. Most importantly I am a compassionate and willing to compromise kind of person. No drama, No mean person. The age is wrong on the profile Its 62
P Joe
Standard Member
50
•
San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 35
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I'm easy going friendly and laid back. I love to travel when there is time I like to learn new things, take up new hobbies and keep up with the news. I enjoy spending my time at coffee shops, play sports, computer and hanging out w/ friends. Iine pjoe619
Shawn
Standard Member
57
•
San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 53
Easy going guy with a calm disposition
I'm a easy going guy with a calm disposition. I enjoy spending time with family and friends. Things that relaxes me and brings me joy are music, dancing, dining, weekends get aways, and most of outdoor activites. I would like to meet a fun and energetic woman. I love spending time with a woman that knows how to laugh and knows how to create a stress free environment. I believe in quality over quantity when comes to a woman. Spending time in the kitchen with that special someone, cooking a meal together and sharing a wonderful bottle of wine is a very sexy and romantic thing, that is a must for me and a potential partner.
Eric
Standard Member
Verified
50
•
San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 24 - 36
I can wait. My love is forever….
Love to explore new things. Satisfied just hanging out with my partner. Cozy when just reading a book/magazine. I just want someone to hold when I have a tiring day. I have done a lot of things in my life. I love to travel, I would like to engage in a meaningful and intellectual conversation. I plan my life and whomever I will be with. No games, just pure unadulterated respect and understanding. I dont need drama in my life. The first time you are unreasonable will be the last time. I am not perfect, my partner will perfect me. I love unconditionally and makes the sacrifice for my other half. I am already set in life and I want someone to experience it with me. I can get lost just by looking into your eyes. I am easy going and can fit in with any crowd. I am a self-sufficient, practical, and situationally aware at all times. I abhor pessimism. I don't have to fit in your world, you have to fit mine!!! I know what I want and I can share it with/without someone.
Joseph
Standard Member
66
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 40
Desire Small, Skinny, and ...
If you're attracted to a young, beefy, well dressed guy, my casual style and skinny, aging body won't impress you. I'm too old for a new family and burdened with flaws, but I'm a nice guy with a lot to offer - particularly for a lost, lonely, struggling girl that needs a love and purpose in life. As a devoted Christian I'm kind hearted and friendly to others. And with the right girl, I'm naturally open and honest, loving and faithful, affectionate and caring, patient and understanding, and emotionally stable. I'm not loud, wild, or a partier, and I don't fit in at any discotheque or young crowd scene. I prefer a simple quiet life, dedicating much time to my faith while also enjoying music, movies, outdoor recreation, and occasional trips. My government career has ended, allowing me a modest but stable retirement income and freedom to travel the world. I'm enjoying this time but seeking a place to call home and someone to share the rest of my life with.
mark
Standard Member
66
•
San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 35
A Wife for Life~... No Glamour Queen! Farm Girls
God is First in My Life. Let go, Let God~ NO SEPARATED or MARRIED Individuals please. I am not interested in angering God. Monogamy is important to me. I will not be part of a love triangle. PLEASE be SINGLE!! I am not somebody’s second half. I am a whole person. I am not looking for the right person. I am doing my best to be a better person. I am not perfect. Yet, daily I strive to be better than I was the day before. I am a Spiritual Being having a Human Experience. No losers looking for a Sugar-Daddy! If you don't have physical stamina I am NOT the man for you. Fun Loving, focused, sincere, loyal, committed, honourable, trusting, vulnerable, playful, goal driven, moral, sensuous and outdoorsy. When I lay my head down for the last time, may the World say that I was a giver and not a taker, that I lived my life with integrity and excellence, that I was a caring generous man who always did his best to be effective in every aspect of his daily life. May they say, I lived my life as walking a spiritual journey, always scrambling to improve; I know there is nothing such as spiritual perfection. May God Bless Us All - Marcos Antonio Dominique~ Yes, I left out my last name. I don't need any stalkers! ;-)
Walt
Gold Member
64
•
San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 45 - 57
Are you ready to have the adventure of your life??
ATTENTION!! READ THIS!! If you are UNDER 40 years old, don't waste your time. I am not interested and will delete your message and not respond. I NEVER use Whatsapp nor Telegram nor WeChat. If you insist on using WhatsApp I know you are fake or a scammer. I only use iMessage on a proxy phone and Microsoft Teams behind an encrypted VPN firewall. If you ask me to talk on any of those other apps you obviously have not read my profile and you are either a Bot or Scammer and will be immediately deleted and reported. For all the beautiful girls that live overseas (China, Thailand, Vietnam, etc.). I am not going to come to your country to meet you. I do NOT use social media....NO WeChat, Whatsapp, TickTok, Skype, Whodat, HelloKitty, etc. We can talk using our cell phone text if you like. Please have some plan to come to the USA in the near future. I am a San Diego native (Spring Valley) from a solid family (3 sisters, 1 brother) with good moral values. My parents were both educators and I went to the University of California, Berkeley on a Navy scholarship. My degree is Electrical Engineering with emphasis on machine controls and computing systems. Yes, I enjoy the beach and go often in the summer. As kids in the 60's and 70's we went to the beach a lot where swimming, surf fishing and picnic dinner consumed the day. It wasn't crowded back then. But I would never live near the coast. Way too crowded and cold and cloudy most of the time. If that's your "must have" then we don't fit. I am 64 years old, 5' 8" - 160 pounds with my shoes on, well educated, well read and can have conversations on many topics. No tattoos or weird piercings (you should be the same). I am not all knowing or always right and open to new thoughts and ideas. I like games, especially card games that require thinking and strategy. I am an odd mix of outdoor sportsman and nerd, but I keep active and fit and always up for adventure.
Owen
Standard Member
65
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 50 - 80
Different Me
Ray
Standard Member
55
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 29 - 48
well connected businessman, professor, executive
I have been too busy with career. I am a Yale almost double major in applied math-computer science and econ&math. Stanford Masters in computer engineering-management science Harvard Business, PhD pending in computer science. I spent 10 years at Tsin
Robert
Standard Member
43
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 23 - 47
Let's Play
IG: AllBlackRod. I must say, water is my weakness. I love to swim, let alone surf as well. I am always open to meeting new people. I'm loyal and generous. Sexy. Patriotic. Active in games and interactions. Ambitious. Influential in organizations. Fun
Richard
Standard Member
67
•
San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 51 - 66
Young looking, young at heart.
I'm retired with responsibilities. My main hobby is playing the guitar. But, I am also active. I hike and bike mostly. I grew up on the beach, so I stay pretty close to the coast. I like exploring new and off-the-beaten path things. I appreciate and support local artists and artisans. I like eating quality natural foods.
John Nathan
Standard Member
50
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 20 - 99
Driven Professional | Problem-Solver | Growth
I’m a young man with a passion for creating, both in my work and in my life. By trade, I’m involved in construction—turning raw materials into something strong and lasting. That mindset also shapes how I approach relationships and life: with effort, patience, and care. I’m grounded, loyal, and hardworking, but I also enjoy laughter, new experiences, and meaningful conversations. Love, to me, is about building trust brick by brick, supporting each other through challenges, and celebrating victories together.
Ian
Standard Member
64
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 50 - 59
Love animals.
Warm, bright, energetic! I don’t like tattoos at all! I love spontaneity, passion and humour. I don’t like to be controlled. I believe that women are equal to men in most things. I don’t drink or smoke, and I hate gambling.
Jack
Standard Member
58
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 48 - 60
Leo
Standard Member
35
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 34
I’m exploring Eastern women
I am kind and loving. I deserve you and you deserve me.
Temple
Standard Member
40
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 50 - 65
Skip
Standard Member
64
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 55
older man looking for discreet FWB
Almost retired. Marriage platonic at best. Like traveling the world by myself meeting new people.
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