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TOM
70 Newburgh, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 67
Eye color: Hazel
ALL messages and likes will be deleted if the site does not show you looked at my profile. Please make sure you read it I don't want to answer needless questions about info in my profile. Thank you very much ladies!! Believe it or not I am just a very charming old curmudgeon of a guy probably looking for the impossible. Aah maybe I am too picky at this age. So before messaging me: I am a homebody type though short day trips and possible overnights ok, I do not really like travelling but my view has softened a bit, I am starting to consider moving to another country so I can afford to grow older. I am somewhat a loner, like cooking, reading, listening to music-live or recorded, very interested in baseball, cars and auto/bike racing. I am not religious AT ALL. Not a believer. No preachers. I am charming (women have always told me that haha...I secretly hypnotize them), kind , loving, not possessive or jealous at all, never yell, never think of hitting anyone, probably boring, I like beer and whiskey in moderation, not ambitious especially at this age haha. I am KIND, CONSIDERATE, CALM, UNDERSTANDING! Sex (the act and all the extras) is still important! So don't say you were not warned haha.!!! Looking for a lover not a buddy. I have buddies. So...sex needs to be an important part of a relationship to you also. I DO NOT CARE about your past sexual history! Not at all. I am 70 why should it matter. One past relationship or hundreds no judging you. If you are open minded and hopefully a bit kinky all the better. Basically looking for a fun, kind, nice woman who is like a bar girl in bed or a nice, fun, kind ex-bar girl type! Marriage...wow. Been divorced since 2010. It has been awesome. Honestly I wish it happened sooner. I dated my ex for 5 years before marriage. So I don't rush into things. I know at my age dating for a long time may seem silly. I can commit to someone without signing a piece of paper. So let us just see how our relationship develops. Instead of just looking for marriage maybe find someone you really enjoy being with and see what happens. It should not be marriage or nothing.. I like fall and winter much more than spring and summer! I live about 1 hour north of NYC. It is rural. If you like gardening and yard work it will be a nice challenge for you. I will not be helping haha. PEACE
Craig
54 Stockton, California, United States
Seeking: Female 39 - 51
Eye color: Hazel
I’m a really wonderful person - just ask me. I’m thoughtful, caring, compassionate, funny, easy-going, generous, … Did I mention funny? There; now that that’s out of the way: I’m a retired probate and trust lawyer. Well not so much retired as disabled. (Fortunately, I’m more financially secure that I was when I was working.) While surfing in December 2018, I was hit in the head by another’s surfboard and drowned. I was given CPR and resuscitated, but woke 6 days later with a C4-5 spinal fusion and a prognosis that I may never walk again. I’m very fortunate that the prognosis was incorrect - my spinal injury is not “complete” (like Christopher Reeve’s was). It is “incomplete,” which means I have use and control of my body, but the nerve damage was substantial and is slow to recover. I will always have noticeable effects and limitations, but I continue to make slow progress. I have always been an optimist and consider the glass half full. I often say, “It is what it is.” (If you know the fable about the White Horse, kudos to you.) For the first year I used a wheelchair, but I threw that aside (figuratively) as soon as I got use of my legs back. For the last almost 2 years now I have used a walker - though I’m really really slow, and it appears that I will need to use a walker for a long long time to come. I fight each day to make a little more progress, which is truly by the millimeter. What is most challenging is that I have limited functional use of my hands, but I continue occupational therapy and make slow progress there too. If you are still reading, you are either really bored or you otherwise have a soft spot in your heart for the crippled guy - a person who takes in strays. I grew up in Southern California. I got out of there as soon as they started putting in toll roads. I took a “vow of poverty” to stay in San Luis Obispo - where I have lived for the last 25 years, and have never regretted it for a moment. Before my accident, I was very active - always go-go-go: surfing, golfing, snowboarding, baseball and softball, backpacking and camping and hiking, travel, etc. Since my accident, well, … my world has gotten pretty small. Covid mirrored that as everybody’s world seemed to shrink by sheltering in place. I have a host of friends and a wonderful support group. I keep busy teaching law school online and working with other attorneys and former clients. I have always considered my life’s purpose - be it work or otherwise, to be helpful to others. My personal goal for as long as I can remember, though I have obviously fallen way way short, has been to try and help someone each day - but they cannot find out about it; if anybody finds out about it, it doesn’t count. (So I can’t tell you about the times when I did a good deed because then you would know and then it wouldn’t count.) I love binge watching Game of Thrones and Shameless. If you get Shameless, you get me. It is said that sarcasm is the lowest form of wit. If so, I am witless. I see humor in everything. (If you don’t learn to laugh at yourself, you will miss the greatest joke in your own generation.) I always laugh and am exceedingly slow to anger. I am very much a “live and let live” kind of person. I do not watch the news, and I do not talk politics - even with people who agree. I consider myself Libertarian in many areas and think government is too big. There; that’s enough of that! I do not drink. I stopped many years ago because it was ruining my life. I hang out with lots of other people who don’t drink anymore either. It is a very fulfilling life and gives me great purpose to be helpful to others. But I of course absolutely do not mind at all others partaking - be it wine with dinner or letting loose on the weekend. I enjoy cigars and consider myself an aficionado. To one who does not smoke cigars, it is not enjoyable to be sure. But their development and creation is akin to winemaking; the various blends for a developed pallet are noticeably remarkable. And I gotta have my coffee. I have no children of my own but am now adopting (adult adoption) my 26-year-old stepdaughter who is truly the most amazing person I have ever known. The adoption will be completed in November 2021, and I will thereafter finalize my divorce. My (soon to be ex) wife was incredibly supportive during all of my accident and recovery. But it turned out that she, unbeknownst to me, had “left” our then-15 year marriage in 2017 -- a year before my accident. (Details intentionally omitted.) So what does the future hold? Who knows? I would think most people in the end want the same thing: a wonderfully compatible companion to share life’s ups and downs - - with emphasis placed on “compatible” and even more emphasis placed on “wonderful.” I don’t know if it is “unfortunate” (reference White Horse story) or not, but my future apparently does not include a lot of surfing, golfing, snowboarding, baseball and softball, backpacking and hiking, etc. It looks like for the remainder of my life I am relegated to being a spectator. So it looks like if I find that “wonderfully compatible companion,” it will be someone for whom these activities are not on the top of their to-do list, or at least with me keeping up. Fortunately though, travel can be a spectator sport, and so that is where I am putting a lot of my focus and energy. Well, that and I plan to learn to scuba dive. I have countless friends and acquaintances and am not looking for online chatting and correspondence. I’m not looking to casually date. Nor do I have a “need” to find a LTR. But I figured “what the hell”, I might as well look online and maybe - just maybe, there is some incredibly wonderfully compatible person out there at this moment. Someone who makes me want to drop everything and go to the ends of the earth to be with them and want to stay with them always; someone with whom I’m destined to share life’s ups and downs, whether that be here in California or wherever she lives - or maybe even in a bungalow in Costa Rica or Kauai? One never knows :-)
Jeffery
59 Rochester, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 39 - 58
Eye color: Hazel
Stop editing and enhancing your photos to make yourself look more beautiful than you truly are. let the person see you for what you truly look like. edited photos only lead to disappointment. once there is disappointment, the relationship is at a loss. you would not want to see photos of a young, muscular, handsome guy. then when you see him for the first time, he is short, fat, and balding. I know this is an exaggeration, but I am giving an analogy that you can understand. I am writing this from my heart, beliefs and values. I want to see the woman in regular and everyday life photos. I hope that you can sense my honesty. It should also show you that I am looking for mutual love and great communication. Without great communication and mutual love the relationship will fail. I only speak English and Spanish, so I am looking for someone who speaks English well enough to carry on a conversation. I do not want to waste your time nor mine. So I like to be very honest and up front. I say this because I want the person to know everything and what kind of life there would be with me. I'm a very caring, passionate, and yet strong man. I have strong family values where families eat together without cell phones and electronics. We spend nights and weekends together. I have been divorced since 2018. I am looking for an international woman because I am hoping that they are different than American women. I do not like American women because I feel that they are cold and do not show their feelings. I am a very open and passionate person. I do not hide my feelings. You will definitely feel my love. I would also expect to feel the same from you. As I previously mentioned, I believe communication and love are extremely important in a relationship. If you don’t like to talk and tell each other about your day and life experiences then we probably wouldn’t match because to me that is how you get to know someone. As I have indicated, family is everything to me. I put my family first and me at the bottom. That is just Who I am. I’m a very caring and passionate person. I have a 15 year old daughter. When I have my daughter, we do many things together. I believe in quality time together. My daughter and I get together often with her grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins. We also spend time at my parents cabin in the Adirondack mountains which is close to Lake Placid, New York. I hope to find that special person that I can share all the family things with and alone time I like to stay active by golfing, working out, riding bike, hiking, doing things around the house and yard, and many other things. There are also a lot of times that I like to just lounge around and watch TV or movies. I think I'm very funny and my friends have told me that I'm a very good listener and communicator. I am looking for an attractive woman, educated, likes to work, caring, passionate and not afraid to show her feelings. Please be who you are and not someone else. If you aren’t true then relationships won’t last. I am sorry but I can't open a wechat account. I have tried and am unable to. However, I do have skype, whatsapp, and dingtalk.