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AJTalon
40 • Denver, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 39
Looking for a wife to make happy.
I live in Arvada, Colorado. I love music, movies, the arts, history, and technology. I read, hike, work out, and fossil hunt from time to time. I am a medical device engineer. I constantly work on myself. I am kind, though sometimes absent minded. I love to learn and experience new things, especially with someone I care for.
Kevin
46 • Panama City, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 33
Travel
I'm from Panama City, Florida. NOT THE COUNTRY OF PANAMA. Haha. Panama City, Florida is in North Florida. I studied psychology and Spanish at the University of Florida. I have lived in Mexico (where I learned to speak Spanish), Spain (where I taught English), and Argentina. I am a film director and producer. I also work for Toyota.
Jeff
44 • New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 50 - 85
Outdoorsy heart with a soft side!
I love spending time in the woods hiking, fishing, and hunting help me reset and stay grounded. But don’t worry, I’m not just a nature guy. When I’m home, I enjoy cooking and experimenting in the kitchen. I’m still learning some Asian dishes 🤭😂, but I promise I’m getting better with each try! Or maybe I’ll just find a better teacher... wink wink. I’m easygoing, loyal, and I appreciate the simple things good food, fresh air, and meaningful conversations. If you’re into that, we’ll get along just fine.
Dwight
41 • Austin, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 63
I'm a very simple person, I enjoy the small things
I'm a single father and my kids are my life. I don't really do dating apps but I'll try almost anything once. I rather talk and FaceTime over texting. I'm a very loving person and very family oriented. I don't have friends and got out because my lady
Michael Kimio Taketa
40 • Honolulu, Hawaii, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 99
Single Mormon Boy Looking To Get Married In Temple
I am the member of The Church Of Jesus Christ Of Latter Day Saints. I am currently working to get my temple recommend. I am looking for another member of The Church Of Jesus Christ Of Latter Day Saints who want to get married in The Holy Temple.
Ken
40 • West Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Male 40 - 90
I’m a big nature lover
I consider myself a very easy going person, even tempered. I love to go for long walks during a beautiful summer. I love to cook and a perfect evening would be to decide on a wonderful menu and cook together while enjoying a fine glass of red wine an
Alfonso
42 • Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 50
Looking for a honest, loving, nurturing woman
I am a single man from the states and who lives in the states and I love music traveling sports and I desire true love and a wife that would move to the states and live with me that I can love spoil and nurture and provide for and spend the rest of my life with !!!!
Ray
41 • New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 39
I am Filipino & Puerto Rican 🇵🇷, born and raised in New York City. I have a lot of family in the Philippines 🇵🇭 They are all originally from ilocos nortes. I have some family in Manila now, which is where I am planning to visit. Please be honest, and DO NOT ask me for money!!!
Demore
48 • Columbus, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 60
I'm here looking for a woman to date and marry.
I have tried online dating for some time. Nothing has come of dating online yet, but I will not give up hope. I do not mind if a woman is an introvert or extravert. I just want the woman I will come to like and love to be herself, so women you do not need to pretend. I do not need a woman to change for me, just be your real self. I hope you will be honest with me, and we can build trust. I'm not here for a crush or to just try things out. I do not mind friendship in a girlfriend or wife. I'm aware of the friend zone and I hope to not be a guy who makes you go there. I have wisdom and have a bachelor’s degree and graduated with honors. I have a diverse work background. I come with not baggage. I love Christ Jesus. I watch all genres of movies. I listen to a wide variety of music. I vote the issues so I'm neither a Democrat nor Republican. I love to laugh and hope my next adventure is you.
Will
42 • Kailua, Hawaii, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 70
Where theres a Will theres a Way!
Please contact me with above info as I am not on here much anymore. I am very focused on being healthy. I was a Manager of a gym for 10 years. So i like to keep in shape. Currently I am a Computer Scientist so i bridge the gap of the virtual world to the physical world. I also love being around extremely positive people who are like minded. My Golden Rule To  upside down for the religious and gamblers out there. Live, Love, and Learn. The achievement on completing these 3 every day empowers you to be whole but as well as your community. Must be done one before the other to = a positive community around you as well as you leading that community. First L =Live, live by taking care of yourself whether it be exercising and surrounding yourself with others that have a positive mindset, mental health. As well as smiling, laughing and enjoying life. Second L = Love, with the first L of living you can now start understanding how to love yourself as well as others. First yourself, spend plenty of time realizing who you are on this earth and live it up to find out what kind of loving person you are. Then you can embrace others and show them how to live as well in a positive manner. This creates a positive mindset to share your love for others. Love is caring for, embracing, and nurturing others whether it be a child, to family, to the community around us. Third L = Learn, Once living and loving is finished you now have the ability to lead and teach others. With learning anything is possible at this point, you can now lead others in the correct direction from making your own mistakes with living and loving. There will be mistakes during this process trust me. But mistakes are not always bad. That is why you fall forward and learn from them and never fall back on anything other than the other two Ls live and love. This learning mentality will create you as a leader and will set you to keep others in your community as leaders as well. When you feel you are not learning anything fall back on living(find out who you are) again and work your way to love(show others who you are and make mistakes embrace others mistakes as well and both parties need to support and care for each other.) and learn(keep learning and teach others). This could very well be added with Lead as the 4th L. But I believe once you get to the 3rd you are in that mindset falling forward and learning from your mistakes. The 3rd L is definitely not laugh because we should all be laughing during this entire process.
Alexander
47 • San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 42
Do you want your dreams come true?
No matter how you spin it, life without love is empty. Last year I traveled to 5 countries, helped lots of people, gained lots of achievement, did many good deeds, well some not so good. And yet, part of it is still missing. Maybe it's you. To the right person I can offer marriage, yes I'm seriously looking not just for fun but for a wife, love and monthly allowance for helping me mostly in jewelry modeling. I work in IT but I look into the future and know what AI will do to IT the next few of years, so I am also in jewelry business.
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Robbie
41 • Dayton, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 41
Looking for a good woman
I turn 42 this month. I'm a professional studio musician. Ask me to write you a song :D No children, never married. Trying to make more time for a special relationship, but it can be tricky when I travel so much for my job. I like to play golf and watch movies when I'm not working. I'm also a big geography nerd, which is probably one of many reasons why I want a wife from another country
Junn
46 • Marysville, Washington, United States
Seeking: Female 34 - 49
Are willing to travel with me?
I'm a Filipino-American, born and raised in the US. Youngest of three, soon to be 47 years of age. I'm separated with a 18 year daughter that lives with me. I grew up in a strict household and also have served in the U.S. Air Force. My ambitions are mostly of travel while working. Remote work while getting lost on the way. They're many places I would love to explore. I'm starting a new chapter in my life and further adventure is what's next.
JC
48 • Glendale, California, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 48
Open to Fun and Fulfilling Connections
I enjoy the simple things—good food, beach walks, catching a movie, or just relaxing with great company. Life's been good to me, and now I'm looking to add some new experiences and meaningful connections. I'm down-to-earth, respectful, and have a good sense of humor. I love traveling and am very open to visiting the Philippines to meet someone special in person. No pressure—just genuine chats and seeing where things go. If you're kind, fun to talk to, and open-minded, I'd love to hear from you!
Michael
47 • Columbus, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 25
Please do not ask for WhatsApp. I do not have.
I am self employed. I can travel and meet a girl when I am not busy in my businesses. I and great at training children. I want a woman who is happy to have a mixed baby with me. I cannot do WhatsApp, so please do not ask me. I sing, whistle, play the piano and more.... I like movies and like to read and study. I am good at academics, lots of school, BUT it is not important that the girl have a lot of education... She can always study with me...smile
オマール
49 • Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 50
A little beautiful Let me display my world here
If you think my profile is tight, then just swipe right! Now you know why I'm not a Rapper😜 I'm a life coach who loves intellectual conversation and a chocolate ice cream  . okay, I just arrived on Cupid, I wasn't actually talk to anyone (you could be an   after all), but I really liked the X about profile and had to say hello! Soo.... just checking you aren't a fan of dangerous objects by any chance? (An impressionable young man can never be to careful💋
James
40 • Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
I would love if you read my profile first
Single guy , hard working Musician on the side , been playing guitar over 19 years Been single for many years I love and am very attracted to Asian women I live in Chicago USA I’m very sweet, honest, strong , caring , funny , fun , loyal type of man I work part-time construction, part-time mechanics, and also courier services I’ve been told I’m very easy to get along with an easy to talk to you’ll never get bored 🥱 Anything else you wanna know just send a message
Scott
40 • New London, Connecticut, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 40
Thank you for viewing my profile.
Hello, may name is Scott. I'm looking for love. I used to be a firefighter and automotive technician until I decided to return to college. My major is General Studies earning my Associates Degree in Science. I have many interests and hobbies including visiting NYC, beach trips, snorkeling, trail running, hiking, reading, automotive technology, and computers. I enjoy staying active. I do pushups, lift free weights, and run to stay in shape. I have traveled to many U.S. states across the country including California, Nevada, Arizona, Utah, Georgia, North and South Carolina, Florida, Massachusetts, New York, also Montreal and Toronto Canada. I'm intelligent, friendly, and loyal.
Richard
47 • Winter Haven, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 41 - 60
Confident. Ambitious. Real-minded.
I’m a driven and grounded man who values growth, loyalty, and meaningful connections. I enjoy good conversations, trying new places, and making the most out of life whether that’s working toward my goals or relaxing with the right company. I believe in respect, honesty, and keeping things real. I can be laid-back when needed, but I also know what I want and go after it.
Chris
41 • Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female
American Seeking a Loyal & Attractive Woman
I'm a successful VP of Finance with a sharp mind and a grounded personality. I know how to lead, but I also know when to relax and enjoy life. I’m the type who listens more than I talk, but when I speak, it matters. I don’t do drama or games. I value honesty, loyalty, and a little edge. I believe a real man provides stability, protection, and passion — and I live that every day. I’m not looking to impress everyone, just the right one.
Berny
47 • Fort Myers, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 43
Beware: I may just be the most awesome person you’
Hi, My name is Berny I’m originally from Florida I'm a retired Military and work as a Regional Director for a Logistics Company. And while I like to work hard, I make sure to leave time to enjoy life. I’m a fan of sports, movies, restaurants, hiking
Mark
45 • North Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 60
Only interested in real accounts
I’m 45 and I live in Las Vegas, Nevada, United States. I work in the casino industry, and I’m looking for my soul mate. I love to meet new people, try new things, and am always ready for a new adventure. I’m super easy to get along with and love to talk about anything. I’m easy going, down to earth, and would love to be able to meet my perfect match!
Austin
41 • Quincy, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
American seeks a committed wife/forever partner!
I just turned 40, a lot has changed for me in the past two years. I was married for 14 years, together 15. I ended up with two biological kids from her and adopted her daughter who was 4 months old when we meant. The younger two live with me a majority of time, their mom moved and they chose to stay with me. We have a close, strong bond. I believe it’s important for kids to witness a healthy relationship so I’m looking for someone to help me show them what a strong loving marriage looks like. Im not opposed to having more kids but I am getting older so if that is important to you, it needs to be soon. I love nature, doing anything outdoors when the weather is nice. I do plan to move somewhere warmer in roughly 4 years. It has been my life’s goal to build a house in the country somewhere warmer. Possibly have horses, small farm kinda setup but set back in the woods. I can build/fix nearly anything and I enjoy doing so as a hobby. I’m a master carpenter with a long history of construction. If money is important to you, I’m not your guy, don’t waste our time. I will always break my back to make sure my family has what we need to live comfortably but I’m not rich. I’m simple, I don’t require much, I just want a partner who lives for me and our family as much as I do them. Side note, I did not end my marriage, I strongly believe marriage is forever but I did not have a choice in the matter. I love being a father and I loved being a husband. I’m only interested in someone who will fully commit and believes in the sanctity of marriage still.
Justin
47 • Midland, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 32
Let my fingers play your strings
6’1” if it matters, but the vibes are taller...
James
41 • Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
If you are fake stay away. I have no time for you.
Successful businessman looking for the right mate.if you are fake don’t talk to me. I don’t have time. Sorry. I want a real woman. I have the ability to take very good care of my partner, but I want her to be proud of me. To hug me when I get home. T
Lagunito
46 • Virginia Beach, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 40
Sweet talk you so much, you will gain 5kg's.
I'm just a speck in a vast beach of lovers who seek true love. Early in this experience, I'm noticing an enormous number of scammers, as well as AI-Generated scams out of Africa (especially Ghana), America, and Asia. My guestament is, 99% of users here are fake. That means I have a chance at 1% of finding that needle in a haystack - A.K.A., true love. I promised myself a few years ago that I would find that special one on this big, beautiful earth without having to go to another planet. Not interested in investing in a spaceship to Venus :D I like to cook, love spontaneity, traveling to parts unknown, cliff diving, museums, and theater.
Matthew
48 • Marietta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 49
I am only looking for marriage. Please, no scams.
I am a full time single parent. I have not dated since my divorce 4 years ago to focus on my girls and myself. Love fishing, dancing, and singing. I played football for a long time and I am considered the baby in the family. I have giants for a family. I am 6’4 “ and my brother is 6’8”. I am looking for love and faithfulness. And I am a pretty cool dude 😁
B
45 • Salt Lake City, Utah, United States
Seeking: Female 36 - 46
Curious who has similar life views
I’ve had a fortunate life so far and I am looking towards the rest.My past marriage taught me a lot, both about myself and what it takes to make a relationship work. After 10 years of learning and growth, I needed to make the healthy choice to start
Mike
44 • Charleston, South Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 38
Optimist looking for adventure partner
I value honesty, kindness, and a great sense of humor just as much as a perfect cup of coffee. I'm generally a quiet guy with a loud mind, but I'm all about deep conversations once I warm up. Hoping to find a genuine connection with someone who appreciates the simple things in life. Send me a message and let's see where this conversation takes us.
Albert
43 • Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 32
Lets LIVE😎 LAUGH😂 & LOVE💖 Together. 😉
Hello everyone. I'm a cool down to earth guy, that likes to enjoy the humor and pleasures of life. I like traveling, snorkeling, nice beaches, video games and movies. And I like the company of good people. I am not perfect and I am certainly NOT holi
James
42 • Salem, Massachusetts, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 45
I can't see likes hope we match
hard working single father of a 15yo daughter l, looking for a serious relationship that leads to marriage strong family values with honesty and openness, if we match i hope that we can have video calles and phot sharing as we begin to grow closer I
Joshua
43 • Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 38
A Humble King looking for his Queen!
Hello, My name is Joshua and I am here to find a compassionate and mature woman who can take this journey of life with me. I grew up in Hartford, Connecticut and made Georgia my home during my sophomore year in high school. I used to be in the Milita
Generation
49 • Elmhurst, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 37
Growing In Christ/ Creciendo En Cristo..
I desire to be with someone who I can trust enough to build a life with. Estoy aqui para construir una relación. Si no te he conocido en persona, no pidas dinero. Gracias. Génesis 24. También (Mateo 25:1-13) Estoy buscando una mujer temerosa de Dios y guiada por el Espíritu Santo con quien pueda cumplir el propósito de Dios, exponer la agenda del enemigo (Génesis 3:15) y construir una vida honorable. Prefiero comunicarme con una mujer que no tenga más de un hijo, si es que tiene alguno. Prefiero conocer a una mujer que valore la comunicación y que esté dispuesta a comunicarse conmigo como si estuviera sirviendo una comida fuerte y amorosa con el fin de satisfacerme. Prefiero comunicarme con una mujer pacífica, respetuosa y amable. Prefiero comunicarme con una mujer que desee corresponder y que sea lo suficientemente consistente y creativa como para iniciar la reciprocidad dentro de la relación.
Stephen
40 • Bossier City, Louisiana, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 34
Seeing whose out there :)
Just an honest man looking for an honest woman who doesn’t want to play games. Someone that knows how to have fun, enjoy life and laugh. I’m wanting to travel and start a business in the future wherever I settle down. Hoping to find someone business minded but that’s not a must. Going to retire abroad this year and hoping to meet that special someone to start a future with.
Jerry
49 • Allen, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 70
Mature, steady, and optimistic
I’m a calm, grounded, and forward-thinking professional who values consistency, integrity, and growth. With over 20 years of experience in the tech industry, I’ve learned the importance of patience, clear communication, and staying optimistic even through challenges. I believe in leading by example, learning continuously, and building meaningful connections both in work and in life.

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