How do I use the mail system?

Our mail system is one of the many ways members can communicate with each other on our site. Members can send and receive mail without having to reveal their private email address if they do not want to.

To send mail to another member, click the "Send Mail" link (represented by an envelope icon) on their profile. If you have previous mail communication with this member, it will display under their profile summary. Otherwise "Write your first email to ..." is displayed. Write your mail in the boxes and click the "Send Email" button. Depending on your membership grade and who you are sending your mail to, you will have different options:

Standard members sending mail to other Standard members can choose a subject for their mail from the "Subject:" drop-down box. You can also write a personal message, but the recipient can’t read it unless one member upgrades their membership.

Mails between Gold or Platinum members and other members can include a personalized subject and message.

Mails between Platinum members and other members can also include an Audio/Video greeting.

To reply to a mail you have received, type your message in the box under the member's message, then click the "Send Email" button.

When you receive mail, it will appear in your Inbox. You can access this by clicking here, or by choosing "Inbox" from the Mail menu on your member home page. Below is an overview of your Inbox, please click on the image to enlarge it:



All mails are automatically deleted after 2 months, regardless of whether they have been read or not. For more information about your Inbox Filter, please click here. For more information about managing your Inbox with Folders, please click here.